Every time I rejected my girlfriend, she'd go and tell her friends I was a poor communicator. Like most women, she could not process rejection. Poor communication is communication. If I don't call you for a week, & we are dating, I am communicating.
Even I didn't realize that I was communicating at the time, but I was. The subconscious will have its way. I am glad she finally saw it, and left. I just was not ready. But no, most men are not poor communicators. They are intentional communicators.
Poor communication is me telling you this is my life, this is your place in it, you can accept it or reject it. That decision is yours. When I have no place for a relationship in my life, I re-appear & disappear. It's the battle of the subconscious. What people call "selfish".
It doesn't make me a narcissist. But it makes you a rag. I have prioritized my welfare, I cannot teach you to prioritize yours. And I will not bear responsibility for it. I know, for a fact, that no one could treat me like that. That you let me, is a testament to your infirmity.
And for as long as you are willing to take it, I will come for more. And leave conveniently. It is human nature to utilize that which is accessible. I have a responsibility to me first. You must execute your responsibility to you. Poor communication is not an accident.
For the less discerning, as each market has madmen, the "I" in my threads is a constant. It is not necessarily in reference to me as an individual. I personalize my tweets for impact. You only need to go through my other threads to see that. Engage the gist, not the "I".
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