❌Dont argue or fight with women❌
If you win you look like a bully
If you lose you look weak
If a woman wants to start a fight use the 3D method:
✅Diffuse
✅Disengage
✅Dismiss
(Applies to women you are in a romantic relationship with)
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If you win you look like a bully
If you lose you look weak
If a woman wants to start a fight use the 3D method:
✅Diffuse
✅Disengage
✅Dismiss
(Applies to women you are in a romantic relationship with)
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Diffuse: Let the fire burn out
She comes all hot and blustery, full of emotions, ready for a fight
If you push back, it feeds the fire
She will get hotter until she explodes (not in a good way)
While you keep frame, let her burn out
She only has so much fuel to burn
She comes all hot and blustery, full of emotions, ready for a fight
If you push back, it feeds the fire
She will get hotter until she explodes (not in a good way)
While you keep frame, let her burn out
She only has so much fuel to burn
Diffuse: Throw water on the fire
Agree & amplify in a cheeky way "Yes, Im a very bad man!" Smile, use your imagination, but do not be self depreciating
She comes with that heat, why not make some steam?
Grab her ass, pull her in & kiss her until she shuts up
Woman diffused
Agree & amplify in a cheeky way "Yes, Im a very bad man!" Smile, use your imagination, but do not be self depreciating
She comes with that heat, why not make some steam?
Grab her ass, pull her in & kiss her until she shuts up
Woman diffused
Disengage: Change the subject
This is an art form, verbal judo
Take something she said & distract her with a side tangent, use your imagination, be creative
Refuse to talk to her about what she is angry about until she cools down (at some point it is good to address the issue)
This is an art form, verbal judo
Take something she said & distract her with a side tangent, use your imagination, be creative
Refuse to talk to her about what she is angry about until she cools down (at some point it is good to address the issue)
Disengage: Stop responding
Never respond to provocation via text (no text fights)
Disengage mentally, physically & spiritually from the fight, dont give her fire your energy for fuel
Your attention is the most powerful thing you can offer her, withdraw it until she cools down
Never respond to provocation via text (no text fights)
Disengage mentally, physically & spiritually from the fight, dont give her fire your energy for fuel
Your attention is the most powerful thing you can offer her, withdraw it until she cools down
Dismiss: This is not the time for a fight
Be clear that you will NOT fight with her
Give her a promised time, soon, to discuss the issues she is concerned about
Let her cool down first
Then honestly address the issues in a cooperative not combative way, as a team
Be clear that you will NOT fight with her
Give her a promised time, soon, to discuss the issues she is concerned about
Let her cool down first
Then honestly address the issues in a cooperative not combative way, as a team
Dismiss: You are the peace keeper
This is YOUR domain and you will not tolerate anyone who disrupts the peace, including her, send her away if she continues
Do not vacate YOUR domain, do not let her push you out
This level of respect is only afforded to men who earn it
This is YOUR domain and you will not tolerate anyone who disrupts the peace, including her, send her away if she continues
Do not vacate YOUR domain, do not let her push you out
This level of respect is only afforded to men who earn it
Be a high value man and you will have *less* turmoil
Take care of your business, she will have little or nothing to initiate fights about
If you provide enough value, your attention and provision will be enough to secure her happy cooperation
Value is not just money
Take care of your business, she will have little or nothing to initiate fights about
If you provide enough value, your attention and provision will be enough to secure her happy cooperation
Value is not just money
The mind of a woman is chaos much of the time and there is little she can do to stop that
The thing she says she is angry about it often not the thing, discern
She is not always logical, thats ok, she's a woman, they have a right to be illogical
She has a right to her emotions
The thing she says she is angry about it often not the thing, discern
She is not always logical, thats ok, she's a woman, they have a right to be illogical
She has a right to her emotions
Keep all this in mind and you will have a peaceful home, a peaceful life and a more secure marriage
If you need help applying this guidance, reach out to me I will help you restore the peace in your home
Men, its is our job to lead our families to unity and peace
If you need help applying this guidance, reach out to me I will help you restore the peace in your home
Men, its is our job to lead our families to unity and peace
Men, our attention is currency
However if we are stingy with our attention our woman will first get hurt, then angry, then find other places to get attention
Be generous with your attention so that withdrawing it has an actual impact
However if we are stingy with our attention our woman will first get hurt, then angry, then find other places to get attention
Be generous with your attention so that withdrawing it has an actual impact
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