1/ Intersexual communication is a dance.
Let me explain...
Think as women as circular and men as linear.
The female body is more curvy.
The male body is more angular.
The female bones are more rounded.
The male bones have harder edges.
Let me explain...
Think as women as circular and men as linear.
The female body is more curvy.
The male body is more angular.
The female bones are more rounded.
The male bones have harder edges.
2/The female sways her hips when she walks.
The male hips stay stationary when he walks.
The female hormonal state is cyclical.
The male hormonal state is constant.
There is a flowing like grace to feminine women that causes poets to repeatedly associate them with nature.
The male hips stay stationary when he walks.
The female hormonal state is cyclical.
The male hormonal state is constant.
There is a flowing like grace to feminine women that causes poets to repeatedly associate them with nature.
3/ This general circular, flowing, and swaying approach can be observed in the seemingly indirect way women often communicate.
But it's not indirect to them...
But it's not indirect to them...
4/ Communication for them often involve the a broader contextual approach.
Things which seem disconnected to the male mind are connected because they are part of the context that surrounds the topic at hand.
Things which seem disconnected to the male mind are connected because they are part of the context that surrounds the topic at hand.
5/ As women circle around the topic, they create a contextual picture meant to communicate through not a single thread but an entire tapestry.
Their communication is context-driven because they want to create a deeper shared relational knowledge of one another.
Their communication is context-driven because they want to create a deeper shared relational knowledge of one another.
6/ Men tends towards a much more linear process. A flowing indirect conversation is frustrating to them because their communication is more content-driven.
They are wired to take action towards accomplishing mission objectives. Consequently...
They are wired to take action towards accomplishing mission objectives. Consequently...
7/ ...circular communication with the goal of relational enrichment can feel as if it is manipulative and/or inefficient to men as they have a different goal-oriented expectation.
8/ The man or woman can try to change another through sheer force of will but it will not take.
As Cicero says, "Never can custom conquer nature, for she is ever unconquered."
So intersexual communication becomes a dance.
As Cicero says, "Never can custom conquer nature, for she is ever unconquered."
So intersexual communication becomes a dance.
9/ The man learns how to lead and direct the woman.
The woman learns how to follow and move with the man.
Their moves are different but they move together.
The woman learns how to follow and move with the man.
Their moves are different but they move together.
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