On the flip side, women have normalized using friendship as a Trojan horse for securing power via retaining men that showed interest in them that they turned down but yet require the benefits those men would have offered if they weren't turned down. It is that power that enables
billing, a shoulder to cry on and in extreme cases, a dick to ride on. This is why they mostly lose their shit when the guy they had "power" over shows up with another woman, even worse a "hotter woman". The craziest part is that, the babe does not necessarily have to be actually
hotter than her, the guy just has to like the lady enough to give the lady all the "power" the "friendzoner" enjoyed and it won't take 5 mins before the friendzoner, by women's logic decided that the new lady is hotter than her. Remember by their logic, generally, "once he left
me for another babe, she must be hotter than me either physically or in the other room or both". It's never about behaviour or character because, to believe in behavior or character, would be to question their own self introspectively and to do that, would be, to take
accountability for themselves, and need I tell you for the umpteenth time, that generally, women and accountability don't see eye to eye.
That being said and all these being said, Brothers reject friendzoning, unless you want to be acquaintances or friends with her normally, but
That being said and all these being said, Brothers reject friendzoning, unless you want to be acquaintances or friends with her normally, but
if you made your intentions known, which I expect you to do from the onset of you realizing you have feelings for her, and she says no, bro move ahead. Beyond you being ridden for a fool via friendzone, generally, any yes coming after the No, is "Second Hand" Yes. She might try
to delude you into saying shit like "I wanted to see how serious you were about me" "I wanted you to prove yourself". My brother, my friend, that is a lie and a manipulation tactic from the pit of hell.
First off, she was trying to shoot her shot to her own choiced guy which
First off, she was trying to shoot her shot to her own choiced guy which
mostly failed and now she has been "rejected", you are the next best, "Temporary Retirement" option.
Secondly, she could have just seen you zeal, naivety, and foolishness with no street OT. So she needs you committed (ironically the more you give, the more you commit), so she
Secondly, she could have just seen you zeal, naivety, and foolishness with no street OT. So she needs you committed (ironically the more you give, the more you commit), so she
can have you where she needs you, in that place of "commitment", so she can use you as she deems fit, until her spec comes, or until he doesn't come and you become the new "Pension and Life Insurance Scheme".
You can argue with all I said, it's cool, it's expected, but then
You can argue with all I said, it's cool, it's expected, but then
again, those of you that have been there / are in it, and have your sixth sense working, you can't tell me, you cannot see what I am saying. Anyway, all man for him self. Mould & shape your life & relationship as you see fit.
You either win or we will have to keep you anonymous.
You either win or we will have to keep you anonymous.
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