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Here are 15 characteristics you must have if you want to be a high value man (HVM):
Here are 15 characteristics you must have if you want to be a high value man (HVM):
1. A HVM does what he wants, when he wants
He is not beholden to anyone.
He has the ability to drop something if it doesn't benefit him or if he doesn't want it.
Ex: If his friends want to go to a specific place and he doesn't want to, he has no problem creating his own plans.
He is not beholden to anyone.
He has the ability to drop something if it doesn't benefit him or if he doesn't want it.
Ex: If his friends want to go to a specific place and he doesn't want to, he has no problem creating his own plans.
2. He believes he can achieve anything
This is known as having a "growth mindset" rather than a "fixed mindset."
He knows that he's always learning & bettering himself.
A HVM understands that he can acquire new skills & he has utmost confidence in himself and his abilities.
This is known as having a "growth mindset" rather than a "fixed mindset."
He knows that he's always learning & bettering himself.
A HVM understands that he can acquire new skills & he has utmost confidence in himself and his abilities.
3. He has a network of other high value people
A HVM knows that there is no such thing as a lone wolf who can do things alone.
He creates a group of great men & women to be around him, to help his journey.
"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
A HVM knows that there is no such thing as a lone wolf who can do things alone.
He creates a group of great men & women to be around him, to help his journey.
"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
4. He holds himself to the highest standard
A HVM demands a lot from himself and he pushes himself to be his very best.
This includes:
- physically, being in the best shape
- financially, making good money
- mentally, learning and training his brain
- improving every day
A HVM demands a lot from himself and he pushes himself to be his very best.
This includes:
- physically, being in the best shape
- financially, making good money
- mentally, learning and training his brain
- improving every day
5. Demands a lot of others
He makes sure his friends are also on a journey of improvement and success.
If they are not, he removes them from his life.
He understands that a group is only as strong as its weakest link - and that weak link needs to go before hindering the group.
He makes sure his friends are also on a journey of improvement and success.
If they are not, he removes them from his life.
He understands that a group is only as strong as its weakest link - and that weak link needs to go before hindering the group.
6. He has the ability to grind
The biggest determining factor in how successful people are in life, other than IQ, is their ability to grind till the job is done.
This is known as conscientiousness.
A HVM forces himself to work when he needs to, and delays gratification.
The biggest determining factor in how successful people are in life, other than IQ, is their ability to grind till the job is done.
This is known as conscientiousness.
A HVM forces himself to work when he needs to, and delays gratification.
7. He has wisdom and is worldly
When you speak to him, you feel like you always learn something.
You can tell that he's traveled and gained a lot of life experience.
You can also tell that he's read lots of books and acquired lots of knowledge and real-world skill.
When you speak to him, you feel like you always learn something.
You can tell that he's traveled and gained a lot of life experience.
You can also tell that he's read lots of books and acquired lots of knowledge and real-world skill.
8. He brings others up rather than tearing them down
A HVM never feels jealousy or envy, but rather happiness for the success of others.
He compliments and encourages, and does not mind when others pass him - because he knows that his own success is coming regardless.
A HVM never feels jealousy or envy, but rather happiness for the success of others.
He compliments and encourages, and does not mind when others pass him - because he knows that his own success is coming regardless.
9. He is a benefit to his family, friends, and community
Others like having him around.
He helps out whenever he can and fosters a sense of belonging around him.
He organizes events, donates to charity, and teaches/mentors people in his life.
Others like having him around.
He helps out whenever he can and fosters a sense of belonging around him.
He organizes events, donates to charity, and teaches/mentors people in his life.
10. Keeps his word, no matter what it is
A HVM does not say anything he doesn't mean and means what he says.
He knows that his word is all he has, and if he ever lies or breaks his word, his reputation's ruined.
He commits to honesty and truth, as that is the best way forward.
A HVM does not say anything he doesn't mean and means what he says.
He knows that his word is all he has, and if he ever lies or breaks his word, his reputation's ruined.
He commits to honesty and truth, as that is the best way forward.
11. He keeps careful guard over his time and attention
He understands that time is all we have in life, and it's more scarce than money.
He does not allow others to waste his time and does not do activities he feels waste it.
He takes advantage of every minute of the day.
He understands that time is all we have in life, and it's more scarce than money.
He does not allow others to waste his time and does not do activities he feels waste it.
He takes advantage of every minute of the day.
12. He has a clear purpose and mission in life
You can tell that he is driven and is on a clear path forward.
He knows what he wants to do and is carving out his stake in the world.
He loves what he does and makes a difference, no matter how small, doing it.
You can tell that he is driven and is on a clear path forward.
He knows what he wants to do and is carving out his stake in the world.
He loves what he does and makes a difference, no matter how small, doing it.
13. His power and self-esteem comes from within
He does not need validation or praise from anyone.
He doesn't care if others like him because he likes himself.
He has an "inner locus of control" and knows that he is the captain of his destiny, and you can tell talking to him.
He does not need validation or praise from anyone.
He doesn't care if others like him because he likes himself.
He has an "inner locus of control" and knows that he is the captain of his destiny, and you can tell talking to him.
14. He understands social and power dynamics well
He knows when to flatter, when to lay low, when to lead, and when to follow.
He can look at a group and know who the leader is, and he understands how women are and what they're looking for.
He knows that social skills are #1.
He knows when to flatter, when to lay low, when to lead, and when to follow.
He can look at a group and know who the leader is, and he understands how women are and what they're looking for.
He knows that social skills are #1.
15. He takes extreme ownership
No matter what goes wrong in life - whether it's a relationship issue, a work issue, or anything else - he takes full responsibility.
He knows that even if it isn't his fault, it's ultimately his responsibility as a man to fix it - and he does.
No matter what goes wrong in life - whether it's a relationship issue, a work issue, or anything else - he takes full responsibility.
He knows that even if it isn't his fault, it's ultimately his responsibility as a man to fix it - and he does.
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