*Thread* - Spelling = Spells
Secret Language of The Matrix
(please use responsibly)
Secret Language of The Matrix
(please use responsibly)
- Tell someone they are funny
Magnifies existence of the behavior, leading to more of the behavior
- Tell someone to be funny
Magnifies absence of the behavior, leading to more absence
Magnifies existence of the behavior, leading to more of the behavior
- Tell someone to be funny
Magnifies absence of the behavior, leading to more absence
Proclaim things as if they are, NOT as if they're not
"You're a harder worker"
Affirms the identity of hard worker
People seek to be congruent to who others expect them to be
Especially when seen in a good light & praised
"You should work harder"
Affirms absence of hard work
"You're a harder worker"
Affirms the identity of hard worker
People seek to be congruent to who others expect them to be
Especially when seen in a good light & praised
"You should work harder"
Affirms absence of hard work
Even if they are not, proclaim as if they are
Magnify the existence of a quality you'd like to see
By giving praise to them already impressing you with their demonstration
"You're actually really funny"
People would rather be impressive than be impressed
Magnify the existence of a quality you'd like to see
By giving praise to them already impressing you with their demonstration
"You're actually really funny"
People would rather be impressive than be impressed
When people ask for things, they make a common mistake
Listing all they have done for them
Trying to 'impress' them before asking
Then they make the request:
"I need you to work harder"
Affirming to them their current identity is perceived as "not a hard worker"
Listing all they have done for them
Trying to 'impress' them before asking
Then they make the request:
"I need you to work harder"
Affirming to them their current identity is perceived as "not a hard worker"
π Here's why it works
We are wired to AVOID LOSS more than we are to GAIN
By praising a good quality, this praise & good identity is 'to be lost' by not meeting the expectation
It also means they come to the conclusion of working hard
vs being told what to do
We are wired to AVOID LOSS more than we are to GAIN
By praising a good quality, this praise & good identity is 'to be lost' by not meeting the expectation
It also means they come to the conclusion of working hard
vs being told what to do
If they 'already have' the identity it's simply:
keep up the good work of that behavior
Appears to be exerting less energy, compared to:
Need to CHANGE & exert more energy to reach and gain the approval
Give the approval, it becomes theres to lose not to 'win' or chase
keep up the good work of that behavior
Appears to be exerting less energy, compared to:
Need to CHANGE & exert more energy to reach and gain the approval
Give the approval, it becomes theres to lose not to 'win' or chase
Doing follows being
Actions follow identity
Being LEADS doing
π "By your words you are justified & by your words you are condemned"
What we've just gone over is even more important with self dialogue
Actions follow identity
Being LEADS doing
π "By your words you are justified & by your words you are condemned"
What we've just gone over is even more important with self dialogue
How can you get the most of what you got?
If you neglect the existence of what you got
Only acknowledging everything you are not
Think: "I need to work harder"
It's evidence & affirmation of BEING lazy
Affirm means to make firm
Repetition in thought crystalizes into belief
If you neglect the existence of what you got
Only acknowledging everything you are not
Think: "I need to work harder"
It's evidence & affirmation of BEING lazy
Affirm means to make firm
Repetition in thought crystalizes into belief
π§²Magnetism has both a positive & negative
Push energy & Pull energy
Inspiration & Desperation
If you think of the hard work you've done
It's evidence & affirmation of being a hard worker
Doing follows being
Actions follow identity
Push energy & Pull energy
Inspiration & Desperation
If you think of the hard work you've done
It's evidence & affirmation of being a hard worker
Doing follows being
Actions follow identity
π "seek & you shall find"
Every truth is a half truth
Evidence of a quality can be found, if you look for it
People wait to see before they believe
But we only see what we believe
RAS (selective focus) in the brain only acknowledges significant things we already believe
Every truth is a half truth
Evidence of a quality can be found, if you look for it
People wait to see before they believe
But we only see what we believe
RAS (selective focus) in the brain only acknowledges significant things we already believe
Stated dozens of times in dozens of ways:
π "he calleth things which be not, as if they were"
π "whatsoever you ask in my name believe you have received them and they will be yours"
π "By your words you are justified & by your words you are condemned"
π "he calleth things which be not, as if they were"
π "whatsoever you ask in my name believe you have received them and they will be yours"
π "By your words you are justified & by your words you are condemned"
π "as you believe so shall be done on to you"
π "ask & be enveloped by your desire that your gladness be full"
π "seek & you shall find"
ππ "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen"
π "ask & be enveloped by your desire that your gladness be full"
π "seek & you shall find"
ππ "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen"
Where attention goes energy flows
Give attention to the absence, more absence is created
Give attention to the evidence, more evidence is created
Thank you for reading
Cheers
- Yous
Give attention to the absence, more absence is created
Give attention to the evidence, more evidence is created
Thank you for reading
Cheers
- Yous
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