Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. They both want what each other has so they engage in an intersexual trade by barter;
A situation where women use sex to secure commitment and men use commitment to secure sex.
A situation where women use sex to secure commitment and men use commitment to secure sex.
This is why common men say "I want you to be my girlfriend" when they really mean "I want to fuck you" and women agree to have sex and then ask "so what are we now?" afterward.
The latter uses commitment as bait to get sex and the former uses sex as bait to get commitment.
The latter uses commitment as bait to get sex and the former uses sex as bait to get commitment.
Women or at least, women with high standards, understand this fundamental inter-sexual dynamic and practice it as a matter of expedience.
This is why despite the countless men across different social media networks in a pretty girl's DM, she only agrees to fuck the best of them
This is why despite the countless men across different social media networks in a pretty girl's DM, she only agrees to fuck the best of them
And the best of them in this case are those who in her estimation, are most likely to provide her commitment among other things.
It is her duty to ensure the effectiveness of her vetting process so that she doesn't get cheated in this intersexual trade-by-barter.
It is her duty to ensure the effectiveness of her vetting process so that she doesn't get cheated in this intersexual trade-by-barter.
The more successful her filtration process is the higher value she is and the better she feels about herself for getting a (high-value) man to commit to her.
It is for this reason that the wedding day is the highlight of the lives of most traditional women..
It is for this reason that the wedding day is the highlight of the lives of most traditional women..
As they've finally gotten a man to make the greatest commitment to them.
Women have an extensive understanding of this basic principle by default. Men? not so much.
And this is one area where a man should copy women and be uncompromising in vetting the women he commits to.
Women have an extensive understanding of this basic principle by default. Men? not so much.
And this is one area where a man should copy women and be uncompromising in vetting the women he commits to.
Or better still, avoid committing to any woman unless he finds someone worthy.
This is even more important in today's femcentric world where the feminine imperative is prevalent.
Thus, a woman who employs a resolute vetting process in deciding who she fucks is considered...
This is even more important in today's femcentric world where the feminine imperative is prevalent.
Thus, a woman who employs a resolute vetting process in deciding who she fucks is considered...
decent and praised.
But a man who utilizes an uncompromising filtration process in vetting who he commits to is called a commitment-phobe and shamed.
A woman who is wary about having sex is celebrated. A man who is wary about committing is insulted.
But a man who utilizes an uncompromising filtration process in vetting who he commits to is called a commitment-phobe and shamed.
A woman who is wary about having sex is celebrated. A man who is wary about committing is insulted.
So today's femcentric world encourages men to commit to just about any woman whilst giving women the exclusive social right to be picky and fuck only the best of men.
It is hypocritical that the person who is skeptical about giving up what they have...
It is hypocritical that the person who is skeptical about giving up what they have...
Is shaming another person for doing the same thing.
This dishonesty is even more blatant when you consider that commitment is a lot more valuable than sex and a sex-for-commitment exchange is a bad deal for the person who's providing commitment.
This dishonesty is even more blatant when you consider that commitment is a lot more valuable than sex and a sex-for-commitment exchange is a bad deal for the person who's providing commitment.
Men get sex with money, by driving a car or by owning an iPhone. Heck! In school, we got sex because we owned an I-pass-my-neighbour generator.
Women will give sex in exchange for shawarma and it's considered normal. Have you seen a man commit to a woman because she was...
Women will give sex in exchange for shawarma and it's considered normal. Have you seen a man commit to a woman because she was...
driving a car, owned an iPhone or bought him shawarma? If you did see such a man, what would you think of him?
Every man should, as a matter of principle, be a commitment-phobe. Just as women are wary about having sex, you should be extra wary about committing.
Every man should, as a matter of principle, be a commitment-phobe. Just as women are wary about having sex, you should be extra wary about committing.
You have a commodity that is rare and in high demand and so you should be very circumspect about who you give it to if you decide to give it to anyone.
Do not let emotional rapists shame you into giving it up with their hackneyed manipulation tactics.
Do not let emotional rapists shame you into giving it up with their hackneyed manipulation tactics.
No one shames women for refusing to fuck or saving their coochie for the 'right man' so don't let them shame you for refusing to commit or saving your commitment for the 'right woman.'
When you consider all these and realize you hold all the cards and the sex...
When you consider all these and realize you hold all the cards and the sex...
a woman gives in exchange is not commensurate to the commitment you can offer, you'll have one more reason to guard it.
You can offer money, or Shawarma in exchange for sex. Women will take it and thank you. What you should not do is offer your precious and valuable...
You can offer money, or Shawarma in exchange for sex. Women will take it and thank you. What you should not do is offer your precious and valuable...
commitment in exchange for something as dirt cheap and common as sex. That is a very bad deal for you.
So be a commitment-phobe. Your mental health and children will thank you.
Pass this on. Save a man
So be a commitment-phobe. Your mental health and children will thank you.
Pass this on. Save a man
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