Here's how to build an incredible social circle from scratch... in less than 4 weeks.
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Step 1.) DEFINE: The first step to building your circle is defining that circle.
Trying to build a friend group without criteria of who should be in that group is like getting in a Taxi and not telling the driver where you want to go.
Madness. So DEFINE... Here's how 👇🏽
Trying to build a friend group without criteria of who should be in that group is like getting in a Taxi and not telling the driver where you want to go.
Madness. So DEFINE... Here's how 👇🏽
Step 2.) DEFINE *specifically*: You must clarify the types of people you want in your circle based on beliefs, hobbies, interests, and occupation.
Ej: one type of person you might want in your group is a "Content Buddy" - someone who is always down to take photos / get content.
Ej: one type of person you might want in your group is a "Content Buddy" - someone who is always down to take photos / get content.
Ej 2. The "Confidant". This person is extremely discrete, loyal, + a great listener. We all have bullshit on our minds from the affects of just living life. Your 'confidant' is someone you can confidentially gossip to so that you aren't spraying your mental shit storm on anyone.
Ej. 3 LTR (long term relationship) Depending on where you're at in life you may want to define the qualities you're looking for in your LTR.
Really think about this — Get this person wrong and you can screw up your life for a while, get it right and you basically win the game.
Really think about this — Get this person wrong and you can screw up your life for a while, get it right and you basically win the game.
Ej. 4 The "Glue Guy". A glue guy is an absolute rock star socializer — a savant of bringing people together. They know a guy who you need to know for biz. They know a girl who is your perfect 10. They bring everyone together!
I have a few glue guys in my life. They are CRUCIAL.
I have a few glue guys in my life. They are CRUCIAL.
Here's just a list of some others that should be self explanatory, "Gym buddy", "Adventure Friends", "Female friends", "Party friends"
Get creative with this. Define friends for the activities you love in your life.
Get creative with this. Define friends for the activities you love in your life.
Step 3.) Once you've define, think about who the core 20% of the group are for you. Then think more deeply, where could you find a collection of these people, if not all the people from your list, in ONE place - particularly at an event.
I'll tell you a quick story to illustrate
I'll tell you a quick story to illustrate
I moved to Australia in 2018 and knew zero people. I was mainly looking to meet content creators because I was focused on growing my youtube channel at the time.
I realized that one of the first weekends i was in Australia, they were having vidcon Australia...
So what did I do?
I realized that one of the first weekends i was in Australia, they were having vidcon Australia...
So what did I do?
I flew to vidcon and met every single Australian content creator in ONE weekend.
Incredible social circle accomplished.
Incredible social circle accomplished.
That's really it.
Step 1 Define
Step 2 Figure out where they are
Step 3 Go there and befriend them
This can be a complicated process. Guys typically have a difficult time being creative with step 1, knowing where to look for step 2, + being comfortable with step 3.
Step 1 Define
Step 2 Figure out where they are
Step 3 Go there and befriend them
This can be a complicated process. Guys typically have a difficult time being creative with step 1, knowing where to look for step 2, + being comfortable with step 3.
If you want me to build your social circle for you in less than 8 weeks, DM me on Instagram @ Arlin the word "mastermind" to apply to my mastermind in which I help guys build incredible social circles and fast. If you enjoyed this thread or have any questions - ask away!
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