Before entering into any romantic relationship, know this
Kill the Hollywood Ideals.
There's so many wrong standards in Hollywood - The grand gestures. The excess expectations. The trivialization modesty.
These things don't mean love. Because how come most of these relationships don't end well?
Get your ideals from the Bible.
There's so many wrong standards in Hollywood - The grand gestures. The excess expectations. The trivialization modesty.
These things don't mean love. Because how come most of these relationships don't end well?
Get your ideals from the Bible.
Don't think with your private parts
Don't commit because of the things you want to do to this person.
Because after you've gone all the way, you'll start to re-think.
Don't commit because of the things you want to do to this person.
Because after you've gone all the way, you'll start to re-think.
Think without your heart. But with your brain.
Your heart doesn't think, your brain does. When we were kids, we were all hearts and little brains
That's why we saw nothing wrong in sugar. Sharp objects. Dirt. Or Fire
Your heart doesn't think, your brain does. When we were kids, we were all hearts and little brains
That's why we saw nothing wrong in sugar. Sharp objects. Dirt. Or Fire
Less Words More Action
People say the most. If we lived by words alone, there won't be any problems in the world.
But actions show more. Give people time to show who they really are. It will save you lots of stress.
People say the most. If we lived by words alone, there won't be any problems in the world.
But actions show more. Give people time to show who they really are. It will save you lots of stress.
Don't be afraid to show who you are.
The beginning of relationships are nice because everyone is careful
You're more agreeable. You try extra hard to please the next person. But not for long.
Be yourself from the start. Set your boundaries. Communicate your preferences.
The beginning of relationships are nice because everyone is careful
You're more agreeable. You try extra hard to please the next person. But not for long.
Be yourself from the start. Set your boundaries. Communicate your preferences.
Are you marrying this person?
Dating for fun is setting yourself up for a heartbreak. And more hatred for the opposite sex.
Be intentional about everything.
Dating for fun is setting yourself up for a heartbreak. And more hatred for the opposite sex.
Be intentional about everything.
Communicate the future.
Say you're not sure about this person's intentions and you don't want to seem forward, hint your plans to this person, and watch their reaction.
This will tell you everything.
Say you're not sure about this person's intentions and you don't want to seem forward, hint your plans to this person, and watch their reaction.
This will tell you everything.
Be your most healthy version - or at least on your way there
Stop entering into relationships and expecting them to save you.
Being in a bad place emotionally or mentally will only make things worse with your partner.
Heal yourself before committing.
Stop entering into relationships and expecting them to save you.
Being in a bad place emotionally or mentally will only make things worse with your partner.
Heal yourself before committing.
Hold yourself to the standards you set for others
"First, take the log out of your own eye; then you can see how to take the speck out of your friend's eye."
We're hypocrites.
The standards we set for others should be used for ourselves too.
"First, take the log out of your own eye; then you can see how to take the speck out of your friend's eye."
We're hypocrites.
The standards we set for others should be used for ourselves too.
Stop using vain indictors.
- Men want beauty
- Women want money
These are vain indicators because beauty fades and men go through broke phases. What do you do then?
Go for shared values. Go for personality.
And these indicators will come as a by product of your love.
- Men want beauty
- Women want money
These are vain indicators because beauty fades and men go through broke phases. What do you do then?
Go for shared values. Go for personality.
And these indicators will come as a by product of your love.
Kill the word "self"
One common word you hear is "self"
Love and self cannot coexist. To love anyone, you have to love others as you love yourself.
Relationship problems are common today because of how selfish we are.
One common word you hear is "self"
Love and self cannot coexist. To love anyone, you have to love others as you love yourself.
Relationship problems are common today because of how selfish we are.
This goes for both parties.
You don't want to enter into a relationship with anyone who doesn't understand that they should love you as much as they love themselves.
This way, you save yourself from being cheated on. Lied to. And maltreated.
You don't want to enter into a relationship with anyone who doesn't understand that they should love you as much as they love themselves.
This way, you save yourself from being cheated on. Lied to. And maltreated.
Isolate yourself at your own peril
Isolating yourself because you're in a new relationship is bad.
It affects your mental health in many ways than you can imagine. Talk to other friends in relationships. Keep in touch with family.
Isolating yourself because you're in a new relationship is bad.
It affects your mental health in many ways than you can imagine. Talk to other friends in relationships. Keep in touch with family.
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