Seven Reasons Why Passing Blame Is One of the Most Toxic Things You Can Do
Thread//๐งต
Thread//๐งต
- Solutions are not found
Too much time is spent trying to find who is to blame when a solution to the problem could have been developed much sooner
Skip the blaming, go straight for solutions.
Create a productive environment, not an anxious one
Too much time is spent trying to find who is to blame when a solution to the problem could have been developed much sooner
Skip the blaming, go straight for solutions.
Create a productive environment, not an anxious one
- It's avoidance of responsibility
You have to accept and take responsibility for your own mistakes if you want to learn from them
Passing blame will prevent you from even realizing you made a mistake.
You have to accept and take responsibility for your own mistakes if you want to learn from them
Passing blame will prevent you from even realizing you made a mistake.
- Blamers are cowards
Generally, people pick their battles, most people don't start something they think they'll lose, so they target those they perceive as weak or vulnerable
For example, those who are bad at defending themselves, or those with a damaged reputation already
Generally, people pick their battles, most people don't start something they think they'll lose, so they target those they perceive as weak or vulnerable
For example, those who are bad at defending themselves, or those with a damaged reputation already
- Blaming is contagious
When someone gets blamed, normally they blame someone else
Think of a hot potato labelled 'responsibility'
If you pass blame, you are not only complicit with, but partly responsible for the toxic environment that this creates.
When someone gets blamed, normally they blame someone else
Think of a hot potato labelled 'responsibility'
If you pass blame, you are not only complicit with, but partly responsible for the toxic environment that this creates.
- Blamers believe their own lies and don't learn from their mistakes
Desperation for something to be true makes your bias convince you it is true.
People genuinely convince themselves things aren't their own fault, and therefore repeat their mistakes
Desperation for something to be true makes your bias convince you it is true.
People genuinely convince themselves things aren't their own fault, and therefore repeat their mistakes
- Blamers make needless enemies
Not all victims of the blame game are as weak as they were judged to be
Those people won't forget what you did, even if they can't prove it
They'll be ready to call you out for your own mistakes that normally would go unnoticed
Not all victims of the blame game are as weak as they were judged to be
Those people won't forget what you did, even if they can't prove it
They'll be ready to call you out for your own mistakes that normally would go unnoticed
- Blaming can expose your hidden agenda
When people don't like others, it can be instinctive to subconsciously blame them for everything
They aren't even aware of their own vindictive agenda, but it's obvious to everyone else
These people appear delusional and are not trusted
When people don't like others, it can be instinctive to subconsciously blame them for everything
They aren't even aware of their own vindictive agenda, but it's obvious to everyone else
These people appear delusional and are not trusted
Thank you for reading, if you liked this thread please RT the first tweet.
For more tweets and threads about taking control of your own life, understanding your bias and eliminating the influence of toxic people, follow me and turn on notifications.
@MyBetaMod
For more tweets and threads about taking control of your own life, understanding your bias and eliminating the influence of toxic people, follow me and turn on notifications.
@MyBetaMod
Loading suggestions...