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when it is said that same set of rules do not apply for men and women in intergender dynamics,
most women who disagree don't even take a second thought when situations they won't consider a man for is overlooked for them.
they only speak out when they feel they are at a
disadvantage.
they mask it with morality, and make it look like they are not trying to have their cake and eat it.
these set of people are either ignorant or malicious, no in-betweens.
both terrible options.
if you won't date men in their late teens, early 20s- even though you are in the same age range,
it is hypocritical to try to shame men in their 30s who go for younger women when you have already been a part of that cycle yourself.
most girls will claim ignorance at that stage
but will do well enough to put men on rotation, date men simultaneously and perfectly reject younger and broke men who are not the cream of the crop among their suitors, while ignorant.
you can't say you were ignorant in agreeing to advances of the older and more stable men,
while at the same time you were ruthlessly cutting of the young, broke and weak men. cheating on the nice men and using a lot others for financial gains and simps for ego boost.
that's a bare faced lie.
younger women have choices because they have a larger number of desirable
stable and single suitors.
unlike younger men in late teens and early twenties who their competitors are older, more stable, look better and offer more value.
so it is a must that they are starved of affection.
a man's is faced with increased choices as he get older
up until marriage as most men ahead of him are married and there is an increase of fine young women who are grown.
the hard fact is that men will always consider younger women compared to older ones for a wide range of reason, some of which are scientifically proven.
while a lot of people will disagree, younger women look better, this is not to say there are no older beautiful women, but the numbers are on the side of the younger ones.
if you live near a university and you are a very observant person you will know better.
men also assume that older women have a higher number of bodies, while this might be misleading in some situations, with age comes experience.
a lot of people will say bodycount does not matter for women as it is ignored for men,
the truth is, the only set of men who get
the chance to have as much sex as women are the rich, and men with status who will always have women due to their value and will not face the same harsh judgment women get for their high numbers.
different rules for different folks as stated earlier.
men say women should preserve their value, but it is only right as long as women ask men to get their money and game up.
as both will be judge harshly if found wanting on the necessary requirements.
a woman can save herself with marriage, men don't have the luxury. no complaint
as much as women love to dismiss the effects of high body counts, research has shown that:
"casual sex rewires the brain and affect the ability to pair bond."
so why will a man take the risk of a loveless union, when he has far better options, he has to look out for himself.
men also prefer younger women for biological reasons such as child bearing.
not everyone can afford to freeze eggs, use surrogates or artificial insemination.
the biological clock exists, it is not wise to try to gamble or hope it comes late, when there are safer options.
men are just looking out for themselves as women do.
we just have to play different games, and each gender should make use of their prime;
women by securing a selfless, hardworking family oriented man when they have the opportunity,
for those who want a healthy family
and men by developing themselves into someone their family can rely on at all times, in different ramifications of their lives.
because it is a cushion for when we become vulnerable as most women will have it difficult finding a partner of choice in their 30s,
and most men will be lonely in their old age, and they will die that way if they do not set up a proper family structure.
the good thing about life is that it offers the opportunity to prepare for the days of drought as it always start with a heavy downpour.

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