Humble Flow
Humble Flow

@HumbleFlow

14 Tweets 7 reads Apr 26, 2022
If you want to be a better wife, read this:
(not what you think)
1. Always show respect, especially in public
In public, wives should constantly strive to respect and honor their husbands (really, all the time).
Be proud of him, and don't be scared to tell people about him.
Your husband will feel like Superman.
2. Talk to him
If you're upset, you need to learn how to simply communicate with him.
Passive aggressiveness is not going to help your husband understand you or get you what you want.
Just tell him what you're thinking, it'll save you from a terrible mistake.
3. Encourage him
Stop nagging.
If your husband consistently forgets to do something you've asked him to do, think of anything he's done well and praise him for it.
If you have to remind him, make sure your tone of voice and attitude are encouraging rather than irritated.
4. Forgive
At some point, we've all had our feelings hurt.
It's a natural element of being in a relationship with anyone.
But you, more than anybody else, suffer the consequences of clinging on to bitterness and unforgiveness.
If your husband hurt you, tell him how you feel in a loving manner.
And then let it go once you've forgiven him.
5. Have faith in the way he raises your children
You and your husband will parent in different ways.
If you keep telling him how he's doing it incorrectly, he'll finally give up and let you handle everything.
And that isn't going to help anyone.
6. Know when to be quiet
Know when to keep your mouth shut.
"A smooth answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up rage," Proverbs 15:1 explains.
7. Have faith in his intentions
You're on the same team.
There's a real Enemy out there, and he doesn't need anyone's help to cause havoc.
Give your partner a chance to prove himself.
Before you jump to judgments, give him the opportunity to explain his behavior.
8. Let your husband be your husband and your girlfriends be your girlfriends
Your husband doesnโ€™t care which celebrities are dating each other.
Some things are better done with your girlfriends.
9. Give him the opportunity to grow
"Submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord."
That does not imply that you should serve him as his slave.
However, it does imply that wives, should follow their husbands' lead.
Let your husband make the final call.
10. Pray for him daily
Praying for your husband is the most loving thing you can do for him.
Rather than nagging, pray for his development.
Consider how he's developed and loved you well throughout the years.
Work on your Mental Models:
- think better
- think in new ways
- master skills to breakthrough
Understand new skills to make wiser choices and take better actions.
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