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Understand these before entering into any relationship
You need some pessimism
Being too happy is dangerous - especially in relationships.
You lose your sense of judgment.
You idolize them. And when they don't live up to this version, you get hurt.
Be optimistic, but always leave little room for doubt.
You'll always be judged.
People judge you based on your looks. Creativity. And what you own.
Quite shallow, but these are the markers for respect in society.
Love is not enough for a long-term committed relationship to work
Hollywood preaches love and its grand gestures
We then moved from arranged marriages to picking partners based on love and money
But how come divorces are more today?
You need Trust. Shared Values. and Vision
Before entering into a relationship:
Learn to communicate your values, needs, standards, and expectations.
Have confidence in how you handle yourself and how you allow others to treat you.
Have a life, so you're not looking for this person to create a life for you.
Doing "Married People Stuff" before marriage is dumb
You're excited. You've never felt love like this before. But what happens if things go wrong?
Do you think you'll be able to stay the same?
Some things are best-kept for marriage
Your lack of healing will always ruin a beautiful thing
It's your responsibility to heal before starting anything new.
Don't be selfish. Kill those past insecurities and trust issues because they'll ruin even the best relationships.
Choose a woman who will push you
Women are refiners. If she worships every one of your actions, you should rethink compatibility.
Because you'll be miserable
She should be more focused on who you could become than who you are.
This is what pushes you to become better.
No one cares about your time as much as you
They may not mean it, but people will waste your time.
Defining boundaries is important - even around people who love you.
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