I had a long and interesting conversation with a young man yesterday night and I can tell you for a fact that so many men are going through hell at the hands of women. This man is tall, young, handsome and rich. When I say rich, he is into real estate and erects properties at
random but he was dating a 23 year old Igbo girl who is as toxic as they come. Even with all his money, class and height, this girl slaps him, disrespects him, cheats at random and emotionally manipulates him. She tells him to his face that if he wants her to be submissive,
he should make sure she never lacks anything and gives her more money than the other men in her life. Of course he pays her salary of 50k monthly apart from other responsibilities he is carrying but the girl insults him for it and is never grateful. She is a university student.
She doesn't know how to talk. She insults his friends, when they have disagreements and issues, she starts uploading pictures of other men on her story across social media including videos where she is almost naked in the houses of other men and then starts ignoring his calls
and messages when he starts reaching out to her. She caused him so much trauma that he got addicted to sleeping pills at a point just so he could get some sleep. She never let's him send money to his own family,everything has to always be about her. She saves the number of other
men with alphabets(A-Z) and takes their calls in his presence.This said girl started dating in her SS1. She comes from a broken home as well coz she makes comments like "men do not deserve good women, my mum was good yet my dad keeps on abusing her and treating her like a slave".
Funny enough she is the last girl & has 4 elder sisters who were all using the same approach in their relationships.They would always discuss how they were dating multiple men while in school and collecting money from all of them so to the girl,that is the best way to handle men.
The funny thing is that all the elder sisters are married so it makes you wonder what the men who married them could be going through. This man would have also married her if not that he spoke to me since last year when the whole thing became too much. The call yesterday was like
an update as to how far he has come and how he is currently enjoying his new relationship with a new girl after I spoke some sense into him and encouraged him to leave that witch. He wanted to open up a boutique for the girl with a million plus but the girl said she doesn't want
anything to stress her. She's studying Agriculture in school so she asked him to buy a Land for her IN HER NAME so she can start farming if indeed he wants to help her but then how can a person who doesn't have strength to run a boutique be able to farm?. Dude was on the verge of
buying that Land before I came in. He said he actually cries for that girl sometimes and almost became hypertensive. They never went a week without having issues. She was his very first girlfriend coz he was more focused on making money first to drag his family out of poverty
before he officially started dating. I think he is supposed to turn 30 next year. I only had one question after I heard all that he experienced, "why did you stay with this girl for so long" and he replied, "she is my spec. I like tall, slim, fair,girls. I am also the very quiet
type so I prefer to date women who are stubborn and outspoken because we both cannot be soft and quiet, I would need someone who can stand up for us when the need arises. She was like that but I only want a woman who can be like that outside without bringing It home to me".
Honestly I felt bad for him. I understood him but I felt so much pity for him. The girl would always forward to him pictures of the different class of men she has dated right from her SS1 including politicians, business men and yahoo boys. She would compare them to him and tell
Him how much all those men were spending on her and how she doesn't even know what she is doing with him. Whenever she does this, man starts running around to increase the funds he sends to her. It was that bad. She never does anything to help him out, tells him she will only
start doing wife duties when he shows seriousness by marrying her. There are lots of other things this girl was doing to him which I cannot mention here but it brings me to every single thing I have been saying about women, relationships, men and marriage. Whether you want to
believe it or not, the genesis of every single thing that girl has become is her family and the relationship she saw her own parents have while growing up. I always say that the negative effects of marrying the wrong person cuts across generations. We can all come here and judge
that girl or call the guy a simp but that girl's problem originated from somewhere.People cannot give what they don't have. You cannot expect her to love or treat a man right when her own parents did not model that to her.This is why much more than being obsessed with spec or sex
in a partner, try to first of all find out about their past and family background.Every single thing you will need to know about a person you will find in how they were raised or their past experiences.Those girls are going around bleeding on innocent men who're not their father.
This guy is not the first wealthy guy to come to me with a very toxic story like this so it is very foolish to think that as a man, all you need to enjoy immense success with women is money, you will be humbled sir. Your ego, self esteem,all your money, six packs, height, beards,
Self worth and self confidence will be completely destroyed if you fall into the hands of a Jezebel. Yes money plays a role when it comes to attraction because security is an important need for women but it is not all that matters. So many men with money are going through hell.
It all begins in the family. If you indeed want to change the world, go home and love your partner(family). I do hope we can all understand this while making the decision on who we want to build life with. I am just glad the guy listened to me and is in a much better place now.
The new girl is much more reasonable and the guy confirmed he has never ever enjoyed this amount of peace. The new girl is chubby and not so tall but man said to hell with spec.🤣🤣🤣
All things being equal, he should be getting married to the new girl by next year ending. ❤️🤞
All things being equal, he should be getting married to the new girl by next year ending. ❤️🤞
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