the reason why most men suck with women is that, when it comes to intergender dynamics, we live in a different world.
women naturally have choices, regardless of who she is there are people always trying to sleep with her. men on the other hand have to go out and find women to
women naturally have choices, regardless of who she is there are people always trying to sleep with her. men on the other hand have to go out and find women to
sleep with, this is where the problem starts.
women live in abundance, as long as she's accessible, men live in scarcity except he has trained himself to live in abundance which is very difficult for most men.
so when men try to get women to sleep with,
women live in abundance, as long as she's accessible, men live in scarcity except he has trained himself to live in abundance which is very difficult for most men.
so when men try to get women to sleep with,
or even be their girlfriend they always put in a lot of unnecessary efforts which make the woman see them as desperate, behaving like that is not normal in her world.
this is why dating gurus will tell you things like- "don't call too much", "don't be at her beck and call",
this is why dating gurus will tell you things like- "don't call too much", "don't be at her beck and call",
they are trying to help you mirror a life of abundance, because a man who has choices will not be blowing up a girl's phone all day, he will be able to say no when necessary and won't jump at the first opportunity to meet up when he has something else to do.
this natural lack of options is what makes men exhibit the scarcity mentality, and it puts you on a different page and outside of the world women live.
so it is hard to understand women, it is like putting a man who speaks only igbo and one who speaks only mandarin in a room,
so it is hard to understand women, it is like putting a man who speaks only igbo and one who speaks only mandarin in a room,
only gestures can help them a bit, they cannot fully understand themselves.
men who have status and wealth enjoy attention and it helps them acquire the abundance mentality, but those of them who are stuck in their ways especially those who weren't born rich always get burnt.
men who have status and wealth enjoy attention and it helps them acquire the abundance mentality, but those of them who are stuck in their ways especially those who weren't born rich always get burnt.
so you see that it is not about the money or status, if you operate with women from a mindset of scarcity you will get burnt, and it's not their fault, you don't speak their language so they can't understand you.
when women put up with men who have this scarcity mindset,
when women put up with men who have this scarcity mindset,
the men are mostly rich or have some sort of influence that directly impacts their survival, then they find someone who speak the abundance language to copulate with, this is called the dual mating strategy- find someone to help you survive, mate with someone you find attractive.
while there are deeper levels to intergender dynamics, this is the foundation of what game will teach you, the amusing part is you can simulate abundance even when it is not present and you will see results, this is how to know it works.
as long as you get your mind right, body in shape, raise your self esteem and keep working towards a purpose, you are on the path to abundance.
people generally will gravitate towards you, because of how much you value yourself.
there's nothing wrong with young men and even
people generally will gravitate towards you, because of how much you value yourself.
there's nothing wrong with young men and even
older men taking dating advices from more knowledgeable people and even reading and practicing so they can offer advices to other naive men, because what a woman dreads the most is a man who knows his own value.
this is why they shame men who take dating advices, call them out
this is why they shame men who take dating advices, call them out
on their desire to get better, call teachers 'alfa males' and try to be derogatory, which is amusing because they then turn around to follow men who has shown that they are not desperate, and won't be a mat to walk on.
it is okay to understand that men's desperation is useful, it supports their lifestyle and get them things most of them can't even get for themselves.
but would you rather be the mat they walk on?
will you prefer to be the guy with no self esteem for crumbs of affection?
but would you rather be the mat they walk on?
will you prefer to be the guy with no self esteem for crumbs of affection?
you have to understand that sex is just sex, them giving it to you don't make you special, you're not the only one they give it to.
all it does is make you ejaculate, and there's nothing as powerful as making women desire you genuinely because of the value you place on yourself.
all it does is make you ejaculate, and there's nothing as powerful as making women desire you genuinely because of the value you place on yourself.
i have seen women travel thousands of kilometers to please men they desire, some run away from home and literally put their lives and destiny in men's hand- and live for them, there's no length a woman can't go for a man she genuinely desires.
why are you the one being used?
why are you the one being used?
all that you simp for is really not worth it, all that you debase yourself for- people get it for free, with a lot of respect added to it.
do the work, unplug, become based and watch them love you for who you are while you're bettering other aspects of your life.
do the work, unplug, become based and watch them love you for who you are while you're bettering other aspects of your life.
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