How to be Handsome
(requested by @OneJKMolina)
There is a Reason why men are usually called Handsome and not pretty.
Lets explore All the facets of what it means to be Handsome.
MASTER thread.
(requested by @OneJKMolina)
There is a Reason why men are usually called Handsome and not pretty.
Lets explore All the facets of what it means to be Handsome.
MASTER thread.
@OneJKMolina Overview
A How you look
1 Physicality
2 Style/Grooming
3 Genetics
4 Epigenetics
B How you think/speak
5 Intellectuality
6 Tonality
7 Humor
C How you are
8 Personality
D How you are Perceived
9 Frame
10 (Archetypical) Nature
A How you look
1 Physicality
2 Style/Grooming
3 Genetics
4 Epigenetics
B How you think/speak
5 Intellectuality
6 Tonality
7 Humor
C How you are
8 Personality
D How you are Perceived
9 Frame
10 (Archetypical) Nature
@OneJKMolina A How you Look
1 Physicality.
To be handsome Dont look like a pencil neck, spaghetti armed dweeb. Gain a minimum of 20lbs of muscle b4 u start to blame your physique for not getting girls.
Dont Overdo it, girls dont give a F about RWBB sh, Guys do.
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1 Physicality.
To be handsome Dont look like a pencil neck, spaghetti armed dweeb. Gain a minimum of 20lbs of muscle b4 u start to blame your physique for not getting girls.
Dont Overdo it, girls dont give a F about RWBB sh, Guys do.
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@OneJKMolina At one point you're Too jacked giving Diminishing marginal returns and Most of the attention you'll be getting is from other bros at the gym. But ur prolly not there yet, and no one ever got jacked by accident. Put in the work.
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@OneJKMolina Sidenote: have u seen the Players? They're Usually not jacked.
So, being in shape matters, but Up to a Certain point. And it will Lessen the burden on you when you approach a girl. Bc now ur in shape and have something to be proud of, which matters, which u exude.
So, being in shape matters, but Up to a Certain point. And it will Lessen the burden on you when you approach a girl. Bc now ur in shape and have something to be proud of, which matters, which u exude.
@OneJKMolina 2 Style/Grooming
From my personal experience its about two main steps.
One, copy the F outta people you wanna dress like. Don Draper wearing a suit, he handsome in Your eyes, wear a suit, for all I care.
Get in the reps, rly live in Step One, before you move on.
From my personal experience its about two main steps.
One, copy the F outta people you wanna dress like. Don Draper wearing a suit, he handsome in Your eyes, wear a suit, for all I care.
Get in the reps, rly live in Step One, before you move on.
@OneJKMolina Step Two is needed: Experimentation.
Here you try out different things, let go off that jacket, or those jeans, those shoes.
But you try out replacements.
You mismatch smtimes, but smtimes smth Genius pops out.
You take note.
Iterate.
You get some compliments.
cont.
Here you try out different things, let go off that jacket, or those jeans, those shoes.
But you try out replacements.
You mismatch smtimes, but smtimes smth Genius pops out.
You take note.
Iterate.
You get some compliments.
cont.
@OneJKMolina So its about:
-One, Analysis (be aware of style and copy).
-Two, Synthesis (experiment and iterate).
Dont worry, this process takes YEARS, not days, dont overstress this sh.
And after a while you finalle get your own style.
cont
-One, Analysis (be aware of style and copy).
-Two, Synthesis (experiment and iterate).
Dont worry, this process takes YEARS, not days, dont overstress this sh.
And after a while you finalle get your own style.
cont
@OneJKMolina 1 Style FUNDAMENTALS
Cant believe that have to Talk abt this sh, given its For Me Logic asf and Googeable, but I see so many MFs doing The BASICS WRONG ASF.
Talking 9/10 guys on the street, GLOBALLY.
The Style TRIAD, aka the 3 F's:
1 Fit
2 Fabric
3 Function
Cant believe that have to Talk abt this sh, given its For Me Logic asf and Googeable, but I see so many MFs doing The BASICS WRONG ASF.
Talking 9/10 guys on the street, GLOBALLY.
The Style TRIAD, aka the 3 F's:
1 Fit
2 Fabric
3 Function
@OneJKMolina 1 Fit.
Fit is king. Make sure your pants are the right length and waist. Your shirt sleeves long enough and fit, not too tight, not too baggy. And this applies to all your clothes. DYOR. Make sure you dial this in. So many guys fail this part, its uncanny.
Fit is king. Make sure your pants are the right length and waist. Your shirt sleeves long enough and fit, not too tight, not too baggy. And this applies to all your clothes. DYOR. Make sure you dial this in. So many guys fail this part, its uncanny.
@OneJKMolina 2 Fabric
Think those no label designer clothes. They're expensive, but the quality tends to very good. Why you should focus on the quality of the fabric is that it will make you feel good. And if you feel good, you will look good. It pours out of you.
Think those no label designer clothes. They're expensive, but the quality tends to very good. Why you should focus on the quality of the fabric is that it will make you feel good. And if you feel good, you will look good. It pours out of you.
@OneJKMolina 3 Function
Imagine showing up to a gala with dress code black or white, in your shorts and flipflops. No bueno. Dress with and for a function. Context is key. When in doubt, a good heuristic is to be slightly overdressed, rather than under. This seperates boys from men.
Imagine showing up to a gala with dress code black or white, in your shorts and flipflops. No bueno. Dress with and for a function. Context is key. When in doubt, a good heuristic is to be slightly overdressed, rather than under. This seperates boys from men.
@OneJKMolina Finally, the last style part:
2 Eye for Aesthetics
2 Eye for Aesthetics
@OneJKMolina From personal xperience and discussing it with a bro who has Taste, have found that the Underlying Reason some dress Appallingly Hideous asf is bc they have p1sspoor taste.
To get rid of that, Immerse more in Aesthetics. Art, architecture, well curated fashion.
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To get rid of that, Immerse more in Aesthetics. Art, architecture, well curated fashion.
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@OneJKMolina You seen those tweets that get lots of Engagement with those Beautiful pics, thats what Im talking about. Absorb that sh1t. Until it becomes Second Nature.
And then it will, Eventually, Spill over to your own Personal Style.
And then it will, Eventually, Spill over to your own Personal Style.
@OneJKMolina 3 Genetics.
You are born with certain genes, which makes you look in a certain way. Things you Cant control:
-race/skin color
-height
-body type, ecto meso that stuff
You get it. FOOLISH to ruminate over things you cant control. This is not what makes you Handsome.
cont.
You are born with certain genes, which makes you look in a certain way. Things you Cant control:
-race/skin color
-height
-body type, ecto meso that stuff
You get it. FOOLISH to ruminate over things you cant control. This is not what makes you Handsome.
cont.
@OneJKMolina What you CAN control:
-physicality + style => Which we have COVERED in Depth.
-voice/tonality (will get to that in part B)
-personality (part C)
-frame
On and on.
Which brings us to Epigenetics.
Cont.
-physicality + style => Which we have COVERED in Depth.
-voice/tonality (will get to that in part B)
-personality (part C)
-frame
On and on.
Which brings us to Epigenetics.
Cont.
@OneJKMolina 4 Epigenetics
DYOR on this. But sometimes your Environment, Will and Habits will transform you to do things they say you are Not destined to do.
-weak genes for drinking => Heavy Drinker
-scrawny genes => Jacked Super Chad
All because you put in time and effort into it
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DYOR on this. But sometimes your Environment, Will and Habits will transform you to do things they say you are Not destined to do.
-weak genes for drinking => Heavy Drinker
-scrawny genes => Jacked Super Chad
All because you put in time and effort into it
cont
@OneJKMolina Not a scientist and dont have a f muh "source?" - but seen it time and time again how some guys Overcome their so called "destiny".
Your will is your destiny.
You can be healthy, jacked, strong. If you will it.
Environment + Habits is the name of the game.
Your will is your destiny.
You can be healthy, jacked, strong. If you will it.
Environment + Habits is the name of the game.
@OneJKMolina That's a wrap!
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