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14 First date Tips for a Zimbabwean Male.
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1. If she is carrying anything, offer to carry it for her.
2. If you do no drive, save up for a respectable (unbranded) cab. Plus, always sit at the back seat with her despite how much of friends you are with the driver.
3. Clean up well, shave, trim, shape up, bath, moisturize, deodorize, and invest in a good cologne. Make sure your nails and teeth are clean, check your breathe and clean your ears well.
4. Wear anything with a collar. You can can wear your regular gear later. Also, shoes should always be clean even if they are old shoes, make sure they are clean.
5. Smile more on your date
6. For lunch, order a salad, it’s easier to eat, less messier and you won’t bloat up. Relax you can always fill up later. For dinner, go for a steak, it’s the safest, always eat something you’ve had before.
7. Your choice of restaurant will determine your intentions with the person.
Tshisa Nyama -u want to have fun/smash
Quiet/intimate places -u’re looking for something serious, plus you tryna smash,
Places with activities -u want to have fun, get to know them well (and smash)
8. Wear a jacket, always wear a jacket, whether formal or casual, heavy or light, always wear a jacket.
9. Buy her flowers, it drives them nuts and honestly I just don’t know why either.
10. Make her laugh bhudi, but do it naturally, a woman can tell when you’re trying too hard
11. Sit opposite her. Beside her is creepy and she gets to look at anything else but you that way.
12. Take her to a place she’s never been to before, but make sure she knows where you are going so it’s not creepy, you can surprise her later when you know each other better.
13. Take your time to actually plan your first date, think of gifts, surprises, random shit, women like that shit, anything but the boring usual for them.
14. Be kind, greet people, tip waiters, pull out chairs, open doors, regular kindness brother.

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