Most people are MORE AFRAID of being a winner than they are of being a loser.
Sounds insane at first until you realise people follow the path of least resistance.
If you’re a loser = nothing is expected of u
If you’re a winner = constant pressure to perform & keep it up
Rewire
Sounds insane at first until you realise people follow the path of least resistance.
If you’re a loser = nothing is expected of u
If you’re a winner = constant pressure to perform & keep it up
Rewire
Deeper
If loser = might be a painful position, but they find profound comfort in being able to swim within their misery. It’s familiar and consistent. In many ways it can be a desire to be Peter Pan, never growing up, wishing they could be a kid forever and avoid responsibility.
If loser = might be a painful position, but they find profound comfort in being able to swim within their misery. It’s familiar and consistent. In many ways it can be a desire to be Peter Pan, never growing up, wishing they could be a kid forever and avoid responsibility.
The main culprit here is consistency.
If winner = success is rarely private, it manifests outwards. People notice. They treat you differently. It feels great. But now you have to keep this up in order to receive same treatment. What if you got lucky? What if you can’t replicate?
If winner = success is rarely private, it manifests outwards. People notice. They treat you differently. It feels great. But now you have to keep this up in order to receive same treatment. What if you got lucky? What if you can’t replicate?
The above hurdle is cleared when you can prove consistency to yourself.
It’s surpassed only once u have attained faith in yourself, before any other external circumstance.
With that comes an extreme confidence:
No matter what happens, the common denominator to my success is ME
It’s surpassed only once u have attained faith in yourself, before any other external circumstance.
With that comes an extreme confidence:
No matter what happens, the common denominator to my success is ME
Ok so now you know you’ve got the sauce.
Why is there still an aversion? I thought you fixed it?
Guess what.
There is no such thing as success without creating enemies. (Dramatic but very real in some cases)
Deep down you know that by winning, you will arouse envy & jealousy.
Why is there still an aversion? I thought you fixed it?
Guess what.
There is no such thing as success without creating enemies. (Dramatic but very real in some cases)
Deep down you know that by winning, you will arouse envy & jealousy.
And the truth of the matter is;
The better you do, the more people will hate you. Not just dislike. HATE.
There’s only ONE way to get over this hurdle: ACCEPT IT and stop wishing it was different.
Take it from me, there is *nothing* you can do to prevent this from happening
The better you do, the more people will hate you. Not just dislike. HATE.
There’s only ONE way to get over this hurdle: ACCEPT IT and stop wishing it was different.
Take it from me, there is *nothing* you can do to prevent this from happening
Stop putting hope in the illusion of
“If only I tread carefully, I will avoid this… it’s possible that EVERYONE can like me! I’ll just be very friendly!”
There has never been a more perfect man than JESUS CHRIST and he still had leagues of haters.
You think you can do better?
“If only I tread carefully, I will avoid this… it’s possible that EVERYONE can like me! I’ll just be very friendly!”
There has never been a more perfect man than JESUS CHRIST and he still had leagues of haters.
You think you can do better?
It’s not happening. Period. You must come to the understanding that most people are deeply insecure.
You, doing nothing more than existing, shining bright, will trigger them.
You, doing nothing more than existing, shining bright, will trigger them.
Sound like cope? It’s not and I’ll explain why:
People don’t actually hate *you*
It’s not like you DID something to them, you committed no transgression.
Instead:
You shining, reflects a mirror back at their unfulfilled potential. THEN they backwards rationalise to justify.
People don’t actually hate *you*
It’s not like you DID something to them, you committed no transgression.
Instead:
You shining, reflects a mirror back at their unfulfilled potential. THEN they backwards rationalise to justify.
This is a little fight going on their own head, battling against their psyche.
Endlessly frustrated as to why they are cursed with the inability to channel their willpower and creativity as you have done.
It’s neurosis.
NO DIFFERENT to when homeless ppl yell at u when walking.
Endlessly frustrated as to why they are cursed with the inability to channel their willpower and creativity as you have done.
It’s neurosis.
NO DIFFERENT to when homeless ppl yell at u when walking.
You have no idea how many people (unconsciously) suppress their own firepower in fear of outshining others.
Unequivocally: success paints a giant target on your back.
It may seem daunting at first.
BUT YOU GET USED TO IT.
Re-interpret: it’s a sign ur headed in right direction
Unequivocally: success paints a giant target on your back.
It may seem daunting at first.
BUT YOU GET USED TO IT.
Re-interpret: it’s a sign ur headed in right direction
I could go on all day and all night…
But I’ll wrap it up here.
In SUMMARY:
Master consistency, realise you are the common denominator and the magic ingredient. Cease suppressing your light.
Decide yourself a star, behave like a star, practice being a star every day.
But I’ll wrap it up here.
In SUMMARY:
Master consistency, realise you are the common denominator and the magic ingredient. Cease suppressing your light.
Decide yourself a star, behave like a star, practice being a star every day.
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