The breaking point for females is when they realize they’re not getting an alpha, usually in their late 20s and will have to settle down for a beta
For males, I think this breaking point ocurrs when there are no more "girls who believed in you before you made it"
Let me explain
For males, I think this breaking point ocurrs when there are no more "girls who believed in you before you made it"
Let me explain
As a male who is driven and not a loser, you’ll "make it" at some point
However you define "making it" varies for every man:
• You are an athlete and enter the NBA
• You are a startup founder and sell your startup
• You are a normal guy and pay off your house + get promoted
However you define "making it" varies for every man:
• You are an athlete and enter the NBA
• You are a startup founder and sell your startup
• You are a normal guy and pay off your house + get promoted
What I'm trying to say is that levels of achievement vary among men but they all have:
1) a period before achieving it and
2) a period after achieving it
This is what we refer to as the race and the origin of the quote "girls stay at the finish line and f*ck the winners"
1) a period before achieving it and
2) a period after achieving it
This is what we refer to as the race and the origin of the quote "girls stay at the finish line and f*ck the winners"
Now, there are 3 types of girls:
✅ Type #1 are girls in the grades who cheer on you and bet everything on you without any sort of guarantee
❌ Type #2 stay at the finish line and f*ck the winners
❌ Type #3 compete with you (career women)
We all obviously want type #1
✅ Type #1 are girls in the grades who cheer on you and bet everything on you without any sort of guarantee
❌ Type #2 stay at the finish line and f*ck the winners
❌ Type #3 compete with you (career women)
We all obviously want type #1
The thing is that having this incredibly uncommon
Sometimes the guy just never makes it
Sometimes 0 girls believe in his potential
Sometimes things do work out and then the guy changes the girl for a younger/hotter/tighter mode
Sometimes things simply don’t work out with them
Sometimes the guy just never makes it
Sometimes 0 girls believe in his potential
Sometimes things do work out and then the guy changes the girl for a younger/hotter/tighter mode
Sometimes things simply don’t work out with them
And since there’s a period before and a period after, it means there’s a limited number of girls type #1
After you make it, any girl you meet is by definition a girl type #2 for *you*
You can’t see BTC at $69k and say "oh I always believed in it, let me buy it at $5"
After you make it, any girl you meet is by definition a girl type #2 for *you*
You can’t see BTC at $69k and say "oh I always believed in it, let me buy it at $5"
The opportunity to invest was in the past, if you didn’t jump in the bandwagon, you quite literally bet against its future
It’s the same with successful men
"Oh if only I had seen it. If I knew who he would become I would've treated him better"
It’s the same with successful men
"Oh if only I had seen it. If I knew who he would become I would've treated him better"
That’s the point
Our irrational loyalty comes from a girl’s irrational decision to bet everything on us, knowing full well the logical, risk-off option is simply hanging around the finish line and f*cking the winners
It's valuable because it’s so rare and frankly, emotion based
Our irrational loyalty comes from a girl’s irrational decision to bet everything on us, knowing full well the logical, risk-off option is simply hanging around the finish line and f*cking the winners
It's valuable because it’s so rare and frankly, emotion based
So, when a guy does make it and runs out of girls type #1, I think that’s the male breaking point
After this point you you can only meet girls type #2
And for them it makes sense to be logical:
is she the best deal I can get?
Is she the youngest, hottest, tightest I can get?
After this point you you can only meet girls type #2
And for them it makes sense to be logical:
is she the best deal I can get?
Is she the youngest, hottest, tightest I can get?
It makes sense that if they’re evaluating you on cold hard facts (is he a winner? Is he rich? Does he have abs?) you evaluate them on cold hard facts too
Don’t feel bad about this and don’t let yourself get emotionally manipulated into taking a bad deal
It’s only fair
Don’t feel bad about this and don’t let yourself get emotionally manipulated into taking a bad deal
It’s only fair
This is why I say this is similar to girls in their late 20s realizing they’re not getting what they really wanted (a guy they’re truly sexually attracted to) and are trying to cash out as many benefits as possible with what's left
They don’t get an alpha, well then they are not gonna genuinely desire a beta bucks, they’re getting the 2nd best thing
We don’t get a girl who believed in us irrationally, well then we are not gonna be irrationally loyal to type #2 girl, we're getting the 2nd best thing
We don’t get a girl who believed in us irrationally, well then we are not gonna be irrationally loyal to type #2 girl, we're getting the 2nd best thing
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