All women are insecure.
They just want approval and acceptance for who they are but fear they are not good enough and eventually will be “found out”.
Which is why they hate “nice guys” who put them on a pedestal.
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They just want approval and acceptance for who they are but fear they are not good enough and eventually will be “found out”.
Which is why they hate “nice guys” who put them on a pedestal.
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To take an extreme example:
Imagine you are suicidally depressed and hate yourself, and meet a dude who just worships you, only talking about how great you are.
What you hear is either:
A. I am terrible so this guy must be even worse
B. he is deluded/lying/manipulating
Imagine you are suicidally depressed and hate yourself, and meet a dude who just worships you, only talking about how great you are.
What you hear is either:
A. I am terrible so this guy must be even worse
B. he is deluded/lying/manipulating
Both options, you cannot respect this person. You cannot trust this person.
They are either retarded or lying.
While most women are not suicidally insecure, the principle remains the same.
They are either retarded or lying.
While most women are not suicidally insecure, the principle remains the same.
If you’re insecure, the approval of people you see as lesser only pisses you off.
The only thing that will satisfy you is the approval of those above you.
And anyone above you who approves of you instantly without even knowing you, is clearly not above your or is manipulating.
The only thing that will satisfy you is the approval of those above you.
And anyone above you who approves of you instantly without even knowing you, is clearly not above your or is manipulating.
This is why women hate beta game. they will settle for it like someone depressed will settle for porn or video games or drugs.
But it does not truly fill the hole, just distract from it.
But it does not truly fill the hole, just distract from it.
So what’s the take away?
All women are insecure little girls. And you must treat them as such. Not by manipulating or bullying them, but by vetting and qualifying them and then leading and protecting them after they’ve proven themselves worth your time and attention.
All women are insecure little girls. And you must treat them as such. Not by manipulating or bullying them, but by vetting and qualifying them and then leading and protecting them after they’ve proven themselves worth your time and attention.
This sounds harsh too many “nice” guys.
But the truth is that to be a nice guy beta is just as harmful to women as being a sociopathic chad.
If you are not both powerful and selective, you are just another child they have to take care of, with no one to protect them.
But the truth is that to be a nice guy beta is just as harmful to women as being a sociopathic chad.
If you are not both powerful and selective, you are just another child they have to take care of, with no one to protect them.
Imagine constantly seeking the approval of your daughter, asking her to lead and make your decisions, doing whatever she says.
This is borderline abusive to put this much stress and pressure on her.
While obviously much more capable, the same principle applies to adult women.
This is borderline abusive to put this much stress and pressure on her.
While obviously much more capable, the same principle applies to adult women.
Also FWIW this doesnt just apply to women.
There is a chain of command in all human hierarchies. You have a responsibility to lead and protect and most importantly GROW the men under you, and to follow and support the men above you.
There is a chain of command in all human hierarchies. You have a responsibility to lead and protect and most importantly GROW the men under you, and to follow and support the men above you.
The only relation this principle has to gender is assuming you want a relationship and family with a woman.
There are plenty of women way harder than you. And perhaps you should follow them.
But for a successful intimate relationship, you must lead.
There are plenty of women way harder than you. And perhaps you should follow them.
But for a successful intimate relationship, you must lead.
All of feminism and progressive wahmen stuff is two things:
1. women dysfunctionally trying to force society to accept them as they are in an attempt to escape this insecurity.
2. Women rightfully being tired of having to choose between abusers and losers.
1. women dysfunctionally trying to force society to accept them as they are in an attempt to escape this insecurity.
2. Women rightfully being tired of having to choose between abusers and losers.
Re:#1
We all try to fight insecurity in dysfunctional ways bc they seem easier.
At least until we actually get the thing we think we want and realize it doesn't fill the hole.
ex men try to fill it with money, status, of sexual partners, but it never works.
We all try to fight insecurity in dysfunctional ways bc they seem easier.
At least until we actually get the thing we think we want and realize it doesn't fill the hole.
ex men try to fill it with money, status, of sexual partners, but it never works.
Re: #2
Women, like all living beings, are always trying to maximize their gain for the least amount of cost.
More resources, more protection, more safety for less sacrifice, less hard work, less submission.
Women, like all living beings, are always trying to maximize their gain for the least amount of cost.
More resources, more protection, more safety for less sacrifice, less hard work, less submission.
Women have a love hate relationship with submitting to men in the same way that men have a love hate relationship with providing for women.
If men can get sex without having to work hard, provide, be tough, they will.
If women can get commitment and protection without having to be pretty, submissive, tolerant, they will.
If women can get commitment and protection without having to be pretty, submissive, tolerant, they will.
But this drive only exists bc the environment always limited it.
It’s the same as your desire for sugar. Sugar was rare for all of human history so you developed no cap on your desire for it. Now that it is infinitely abundant, you following your desires makes you fat and sick.
It’s the same as your desire for sugar. Sugar was rare for all of human history so you developed no cap on your desire for it. Now that it is infinitely abundant, you following your desires makes you fat and sick.
This is why women who do not make an effort to be beautiful, kind, with a family and a man to support
And men who do not make an effort to be strong, productive, and powerful, with a family and a wife who supports him
all become highly neurotic and depressed
And men who do not make an effort to be strong, productive, and powerful, with a family and a wife who supports him
all become highly neurotic and depressed
Sure some men are truly content as NEETs and some women are truly content as cat lady ogres.
But most are not and never will be.
But most are not and never will be.
Men and women were forced to be of high quality by our environment for all of human history.
Today becoming high quality is a choice. And one few make.
Today becoming high quality is a choice. And one few make.
Both genders have seen significant hollowing out of the “middle class” of the socio sexual hierarchy.
Hot girls are becoming hotter due to filters and plastic surgery.
Mid girls are becoming uglier do to laziness, bad food, etc
Hot girls are becoming hotter due to filters and plastic surgery.
Mid girls are becoming uglier do to laziness, bad food, etc
Alpha men are becoming more narcissistic due to ability to get unlimited sex for no commitment
Beta men are becoming more weak and useless due to lack of training to be useful and valuable
Beta men are becoming more weak and useless due to lack of training to be useful and valuable
I talk more about pareto distributions and the hollowing out of sociosexual middle class here
minordissent.substack.com
minordissent.substack.com
Anyway point is: feminism is largely a byproduct of all the mid men disappearing and women looking for a way to cope.
Unfortunately, it’s a self reinforcing cycle. Single moms, progressive ideology, turn men into weak placaters or sociopathic abusers.
Unfortunately, it’s a self reinforcing cycle. Single moms, progressive ideology, turn men into weak placaters or sociopathic abusers.
So how do you fix this?
You cant do it through laws or government or “culture wars”. All this does is reinforce the toxic cycle.
War only works when you can genocide or enslave the other side. Clearly, this is not an option.
You cant do it through laws or government or “culture wars”. All this does is reinforce the toxic cycle.
War only works when you can genocide or enslave the other side. Clearly, this is not an option.
So what can you do?
Get yourself together. Become what you could be. Become useful, productive, attractive, healthy.
You don’t need a thousand high quality partners. you just need one.
And given the shit competition, if you are even trying you can get plenty.
Get yourself together. Become what you could be. Become useful, productive, attractive, healthy.
You don’t need a thousand high quality partners. you just need one.
And given the shit competition, if you are even trying you can get plenty.
If you were retarded enough to read all this, here’s some other posts you might like:
minordissent.substack.com
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