20 more rules for men in a relationship
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1. Don’t try to make her happy
Everyone is responsible for their own feelings and thoughts. So is your partner. She will have bad moods. She will have her challenges. Let her experience them and learn from them.
This is how she grows.
Everyone is responsible for their own feelings and thoughts. So is your partner. She will have bad moods. She will have her challenges. Let her experience them and learn from them.
This is how she grows.
2. Be loyal or be single
Men who cheat are the lowest. You have certain desires, other than your current partner. Do you want to chase them, or do you choose to be with your partner?
You must make a decision.
Men who cheat are the lowest. You have certain desires, other than your current partner. Do you want to chase them, or do you choose to be with your partner?
You must make a decision.
3. Don’t analyze her
Women click differently than men. Women are like the ocean. She can learn to relax her edges and trust your love, but she will never fix anything by analyzing her “problem”.
Don’t apply your manly ways to your woman.
Women click differently than men. Women are like the ocean. She can learn to relax her edges and trust your love, but she will never fix anything by analyzing her “problem”.
Don’t apply your manly ways to your woman.
4. Don’t be needy
Neediness is the number 1 killer of happy relationships. There is nothing more unattractive than a man that is in need of a woman. Instead, focus on building your empire.
Your partner will follow, as you will be way more appealing.
Neediness is the number 1 killer of happy relationships. There is nothing more unattractive than a man that is in need of a woman. Instead, focus on building your empire.
Your partner will follow, as you will be way more appealing.
5. Love unconditionally
Love can only exist unconditionally. Because if conditional, it can’t be called true love. Allow for mistakes to be made. Accept each other’s flaws, unless you really can’t live with them.
Grow together or make decisions.
Love can only exist unconditionally. Because if conditional, it can’t be called true love. Allow for mistakes to be made. Accept each other’s flaws, unless you really can’t live with them.
Grow together or make decisions.
6. Don’t be possessive
You don’t own each other. You both have your own interests. Your own group of friends. So don’t act like that’s not the case. Instead, build trust between the two of you.
This will make for a durable relationship.
You don’t own each other. You both have your own interests. Your own group of friends. So don’t act like that’s not the case. Instead, build trust between the two of you.
This will make for a durable relationship.
7. Spend time with her
Don’t just be there. Be present. Take her on dates. Spice things up. She will love you for it. And the relationship will only become better.
A win-win.
Don’t just be there. Be present. Take her on dates. Spice things up. She will love you for it. And the relationship will only become better.
A win-win.
8. Lead
Women need direction. Not a dictator. Study leadership and become the leader in the relationship. Lead from your masculine essence.
Your guidance will do wonders for the relationship.
Women need direction. Not a dictator. Study leadership and become the leader in the relationship. Lead from your masculine essence.
Your guidance will do wonders for the relationship.
9. Listen to her
Be her sounding board. Women often have a lot going on in their heads and don’t solve this by hitting the gym. They want to talk and more importantly, be heard.
Be that person for her.
Be her sounding board. Women often have a lot going on in their heads and don’t solve this by hitting the gym. They want to talk and more importantly, be heard.
Be that person for her.
10. Embrace solitude
To be happy together, you must be happy alone. There is no greater threat to a relationship than two people who are dependent on each other.
Choose to be together from a place of solitude.
To be happy together, you must be happy alone. There is no greater threat to a relationship than two people who are dependent on each other.
Choose to be together from a place of solitude.
11. Know who you are
Know your vices and challenges. Strive to understand them through and through. By understanding yourself, you will improve your role in the relationship.
Improvement always starts with yourself.
Know your vices and challenges. Strive to understand them through and through. By understanding yourself, you will improve your role in the relationship.
Improvement always starts with yourself.
12. Stimulate self-improvement
You must both strive to improve yourself daily. And besides that, you must stimulate each other to grow. But don’t constantly critique her. Instead, compliment her.
Focus on the stuff that is going well and she’ll want to do more of it.
You must both strive to improve yourself daily. And besides that, you must stimulate each other to grow. But don’t constantly critique her. Instead, compliment her.
Focus on the stuff that is going well and she’ll want to do more of it.
13. Be honest with yourself
Your feelings and emotions are there for a reason. Don’t put them away. This is a one-way ticket to the end of your relationship. Listen to them. And make decisions based on them.
You deserve it.
Your feelings and emotions are there for a reason. Don’t put them away. This is a one-way ticket to the end of your relationship. Listen to them. And make decisions based on them.
You deserve it.
14. Be honest with her
She deserves your brutal honesty. Don’t be a dick, but be the truest version of yourself. Tell her what’s on your mind and what you think is lacking in the relationship.
You will both be better off.
She deserves your brutal honesty. Don’t be a dick, but be the truest version of yourself. Tell her what’s on your mind and what you think is lacking in the relationship.
You will both be better off.
15. Quit porn
There is no place for pornography in a healthy relationship. What are you lacking that makes you want to watch this filth? Get rid of it today. Find purpose. Master your urges.
You will both be better off without it.
There is no place for pornography in a healthy relationship. What are you lacking that makes you want to watch this filth? Get rid of it today. Find purpose. Master your urges.
You will both be better off without it.
16. Master self-discipline
Attack the things you need to do head-on. This is how you win. And by being the best, winning version of yourself you give your most to the relationship.
Self-discipline will make for more time for each other.
Attack the things you need to do head-on. This is how you win. And by being the best, winning version of yourself you give your most to the relationship.
Self-discipline will make for more time for each other.
17. Stay in shape
The best version of you is a fit, high testosterone, confident leader. You owe it to yourself and to your (future) kids. If you are happy in your body, you will be happy in the relationship of your choice.
Be your best.
The best version of you is a fit, high testosterone, confident leader. You owe it to yourself and to your (future) kids. If you are happy in your body, you will be happy in the relationship of your choice.
Be your best.
18. Be at peace with yourself first
If you can’t come to terms with your essence, you will bring this frustration with you into the relationship. Study your past. Honor your ancestors. Conquer your demons.
Instead of frustration, bring peace.
If you can’t come to terms with your essence, you will bring this frustration with you into the relationship. Study your past. Honor your ancestors. Conquer your demons.
Instead of frustration, bring peace.
19. Be the breadwinner
Men are happiest when they are providing for their families. There is nothing more satisfying and noble. Get a well-paying job. Or build a business of your own.
Do what works for you and brings money to the table.
Men are happiest when they are providing for their families. There is nothing more satisfying and noble. Get a well-paying job. Or build a business of your own.
Do what works for you and brings money to the table.
20. Live with no regrets
There is no place for bitter exes or regretful sins in a healthy relationship. Come to terms with your past. Focus on the present. And plan for the future.
This is how you win together.
There is no place for bitter exes or regretful sins in a healthy relationship. Come to terms with your past. Focus on the present. And plan for the future.
This is how you win together.
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