James Peters | CEO Therapist
James Peters | CEO Therapist

@JamesCPeters

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5 No Bullsh*t advice society doesn't tell you
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1) Before you get married discuss the things mentioned below:-
• Bills, Credit debt & financial expectations.
• Parenting styles & how to deal with family.
• Sexual expectations & partner expectations.
• Childhood traumas.
• Family health history.
• Bucket list & Dream home.
• Career and Education.
• Political view.
Love isn't enough.
2) Normalise saying "no" Without needing to over-explain yourself.
If someone is offended by your boundaries, that's their problem.
The best weight you will ever lose is the weight of other people's opinion of you.
3) Don't subscribe to other people's definition of "fun".
Fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying & socialising.
Fun can be a night alone, lost in a book, a deep conversation with your beloved etc.
Fun is yours; You define it.
4) Don't spend too much time making yourself physically attractive.
Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities, and learn to be happy on your own.
Train your mental health. That's attractive.
5) The age of 15-30 is the golden era of our life. Don't ruin it.
Things we generally do in this period:-
• You make friends; you lose them.
• You make mistakes; you correct them.
• You fall; you get up.
• You taste failure; you taste success.
• You learn, you realise.
• You hit reality; you get hurt.
• You lose yourself; you become stronger.
That's a wrap folks! Let me know what resonates with you the most. Peace and Love ❤️

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