If you struggle with dating then implement these 7 practices to stand out from 95% of the dating pool:
I used to SUCK at dating and talking to women.
• I would get needy for their validation
• I used to get a SHIT TON of dating anxiety
• I even avoided it all together at one point and pretend I was "too busy."
Finally I decided to overcome my fears by practicing this
• I would get needy for their validation
• I used to get a SHIT TON of dating anxiety
• I even avoided it all together at one point and pretend I was "too busy."
Finally I decided to overcome my fears by practicing this
1. Trust your gut
If the vibe is not a "fuck yes" then it is a "fuck no."
LISTEN to your gut feeling.
Don't continue to see somebody because you think they may meet your expectations later or because you are horny.
Be intentional. Don't waste each other's time.
If the vibe is not a "fuck yes" then it is a "fuck no."
LISTEN to your gut feeling.
Don't continue to see somebody because you think they may meet your expectations later or because you are horny.
Be intentional. Don't waste each other's time.
2. Stop trying to impress
Some of my favorite dates have been the ones where I go directly from the gym to the coffee shop.
• Smelly
• Sweaty
• No fucks given
You are not meeting up with this person to impress them.
You are meeting up to GET TO KNOW THEM.
Be present.
Some of my favorite dates have been the ones where I go directly from the gym to the coffee shop.
• Smelly
• Sweaty
• No fucks given
You are not meeting up with this person to impress them.
You are meeting up to GET TO KNOW THEM.
Be present.
3. Forgive the men or women from your past
Look, I get it you have been hurt.
But assuming the rest of the population will be like your ex just hurts you more.
Forgive them and most importantly forgive yourself so you can make room to move on and make space for someone new.
Look, I get it you have been hurt.
But assuming the rest of the population will be like your ex just hurts you more.
Forgive them and most importantly forgive yourself so you can make room to move on and make space for someone new.
4. Polarize yourself
Be who you are.
Show the parts of you that are passionate in certain topics.
Be confident in your beliefs, goals, humor and style.
You are not trying to win them over.
You are just seeing if they are your vibe.
Be who you are.
Show the parts of you that are passionate in certain topics.
Be confident in your beliefs, goals, humor and style.
You are not trying to win them over.
You are just seeing if they are your vibe.
5. Let go of expectation
Expectations are binary.
Things either meet your expectation or they don't and you feel disappointed.
Be vulnerable, flirt, and tell stories...
But don't do it because you are EXPECTING a reaction.
Do it because you are honest.
Expectations are binary.
Things either meet your expectation or they don't and you feel disappointed.
Be vulnerable, flirt, and tell stories...
But don't do it because you are EXPECTING a reaction.
Do it because you are honest.
6. Journal
I would do this before dates I got anxiety for.
I'd write down why I felt anxious and discovered deeper what stories I was telling myself.
Then I would write down the intentional thoughts I want to create about the date.
Repeat the thoughts until you believe them
I would do this before dates I got anxiety for.
I'd write down why I felt anxious and discovered deeper what stories I was telling myself.
Then I would write down the intentional thoughts I want to create about the date.
Repeat the thoughts until you believe them
7. Set your intentions
Set your intention to go on a date to GIVE to another person not to GET from them.
When you feel like you need to get something from someone you subconsciously believe that you still lack something.
Lack comes from your insecurities
Set your intention to go on a date to GIVE to another person not to GET from them.
When you feel like you need to get something from someone you subconsciously believe that you still lack something.
Lack comes from your insecurities
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