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8 uncomfortable truths every father should know...
1. Dads need brothers not "bros"
Fatherhood requires maturity.
Mature men have brothers, mentors and allies, not "bros".
Bros long for life before kids, brothers support your life after kids.
The glorious burden of fatherhood requires support of other mature men.
Fatherhood requires maturity.
Mature men have brothers, mentors and allies, not "bros".
Bros long for life before kids, brothers support your life after kids.
The glorious burden of fatherhood requires support of other mature men.
2. Raise kids who are independent.
Making sure your kids "fit in" is a terrible parenting goal
Why fit into a sick society?
Let your kids explore their divine purpose and gifts
Not being recruited in a soul-sucking 9-5
Societal parenting expectations are toxic
Resist them.
Making sure your kids "fit in" is a terrible parenting goal
Why fit into a sick society?
Let your kids explore their divine purpose and gifts
Not being recruited in a soul-sucking 9-5
Societal parenting expectations are toxic
Resist them.
3. Being fit is a necessity to good parenting
Out of shape and over weight dads teach their kids terrible habits.
Unfit dads are;
• Lazy
• Die early
• Moody
• Mostly care about their own comfort
You don't have to have a perfect body, being fit is enough.
Out of shape and over weight dads teach their kids terrible habits.
Unfit dads are;
• Lazy
• Die early
• Moody
• Mostly care about their own comfort
You don't have to have a perfect body, being fit is enough.
4. Avoid passing on unhealed wound to your kids.
Work on yourself daily
Here's how;
• Understand your kids more deeply
• Connect deeply with good men
• Commit to daily mindfulness practices
• Identify, sit with and heal yourself
Your kids needs healed dad.
Work on yourself daily
Here's how;
• Understand your kids more deeply
• Connect deeply with good men
• Commit to daily mindfulness practices
• Identify, sit with and heal yourself
Your kids needs healed dad.
5. Set boundaries or else lose your kids to the metaverse
Put down your phone when around your kids.
Direct their energy in more meaning, fun filled activities
Let them grow appreciating real life experiences over screen
Put down your phone when around your kids.
Direct their energy in more meaning, fun filled activities
Let them grow appreciating real life experiences over screen
6. At some point, your kids are going to get hurt and make stupid decisions.
You cannot protect them from all harm, let's agree on that.
But you're needed to;
• Support them when in life crisis
• Help them set boundaries
• Help them pick themselves up when they fall
You cannot protect them from all harm, let's agree on that.
But you're needed to;
• Support them when in life crisis
• Help them set boundaries
• Help them pick themselves up when they fall
7. Sacrificing your own needs for your family is never noble.
Self-care and healing is not selfish.
To become a better man your family need you to have a good
• Mental health
• Physical health
• Handle your emotions the right way
• Healed your childhood traumas
Self-care and healing is not selfish.
To become a better man your family need you to have a good
• Mental health
• Physical health
• Handle your emotions the right way
• Healed your childhood traumas
8. At some point your children will no longer need you
Your impact in their life determines whether it's a gift or a curse
Whether they'll write you off and stop checking on you depends on you.
When raising your kids, impact them with love and tools they need to thrive.
Your impact in their life determines whether it's a gift or a curse
Whether they'll write you off and stop checking on you depends on you.
When raising your kids, impact them with love and tools they need to thrive.
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I know our family is getting stronger, I long for that.
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• Making money online
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• Business ideas
• Creativity
• Life
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