10 signs that you should be looking for in your 20s:
1. You pause before reacting
You used to be quick to speak, but not anymore.
Now you take a deep breath and think of how you want to respond.
The real flex is not having to respond at all.
You used to be quick to speak, but not anymore.
Now you take a deep breath and think of how you want to respond.
The real flex is not having to respond at all.
2. You ask for help
You used to suffer in silence.
Now you ask for help with pride because you know there is strength in numbers.
Maybe you will be able to show another person suffering that it’s okay to ask for help.
You used to suffer in silence.
Now you ask for help with pride because you know there is strength in numbers.
Maybe you will be able to show another person suffering that it’s okay to ask for help.
3. You get feedback without being defensive
You used to vent constantly.
Now you take that feedback and use it to improve the way you do life. You are constantly learning how to be a better person.
This is a superpower.
You used to vent constantly.
Now you take that feedback and use it to improve the way you do life. You are constantly learning how to be a better person.
This is a superpower.
4. You stop lying about being okay
This is a big one.
You used to want everyone to think you were okay, but now you know that true courage is being able to say you aren’t.
Everyone needs to be seen and heard at times. Keep speaking up.
This is a big one.
You used to want everyone to think you were okay, but now you know that true courage is being able to say you aren’t.
Everyone needs to be seen and heard at times. Keep speaking up.
5. You set healthy boundaries
You used to be the one who always sacrificed.
Now you know that you need to have boundaries set to protect your mental health and your energy.
Always control your vibe.
You used to be the one who always sacrificed.
Now you know that you need to have boundaries set to protect your mental health and your energy.
Always control your vibe.
6. You aren’t easy to provoke
You used to have a short fuse.
Now you use people's anger against them as you remain cool, calm, and collected.
This will take you far in life as you continue to grow and excel while others still battle with their attitude.
You used to have a short fuse.
Now you use people's anger against them as you remain cool, calm, and collected.
This will take you far in life as you continue to grow and excel while others still battle with their attitude.
7. You’ve left harmful relationships behind
You used to fear being alone.
Now you know that toxic relationships aren’t worth your time or energy. You are selective about who you allow in your circle and who should be.
Keep practicing self care.
You used to fear being alone.
Now you know that toxic relationships aren’t worth your time or energy. You are selective about who you allow in your circle and who should be.
Keep practicing self care.
8. You take emotions into account
You used to question your mental state.
Now you trust your gut and know when your emotions are keeping you from a situation that you don’t want to be in.
Listen to your emotions, they will keep you from chasing something that you shouldn’t.
You used to question your mental state.
Now you trust your gut and know when your emotions are keeping you from a situation that you don’t want to be in.
Listen to your emotions, they will keep you from chasing something that you shouldn’t.
9. You are open to new ideas and perspectives
You used to be scared of change.
Now you embrace change like an old friend. You know that with chance comes new opportunities and the chance of meeting new people.
Keep riding the winds of change, they will take you far.
You used to be scared of change.
Now you embrace change like an old friend. You know that with chance comes new opportunities and the chance of meeting new people.
Keep riding the winds of change, they will take you far.
10. You allow yourself to make mistakes
You used to beat yourself up.
Now you know that the only mistake in life is not learning from every experience. You gotta keep putting yourself in positions to grow and that will require failure.
Don’t shy away from it.
You used to beat yourself up.
Now you know that the only mistake in life is not learning from every experience. You gotta keep putting yourself in positions to grow and that will require failure.
Don’t shy away from it.
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