1. Obsession is a gift.
When you are young, your best resource is the time and energy you have.
When you come across a vocation, calling that makes you forget about time - that is a gift.
When you are young, your best resource is the time and energy you have.
When you come across a vocation, calling that makes you forget about time - that is a gift.
Obsess over it, learn all about it, think about it all day.
They'll call you "mad". Let them.
You focus on what drives you, wakes you up every morning to get after it.
They'll call you "mad". Let them.
You focus on what drives you, wakes you up every morning to get after it.
2. Reading is important, but it is just 30% of the equation.
You'll learn a lot through extensive reading. It is essential.
But don't become a man with 1000 books and zero experience.
You'll learn a lot through extensive reading. It is essential.
But don't become a man with 1000 books and zero experience.
Get your hands dirty, get experience, try different things.
Experience cannot be learned from a book.
Experience cannot be learned from a book.
3. You come FIRST.
Some people will call you "selfish" when you put yourself, your well-being first, start prioritizing your career. Let them.
Your success and well-being are your responsibility. Not anyone else. And vice-versa.
Some people will call you "selfish" when you put yourself, your well-being first, start prioritizing your career. Let them.
Your success and well-being are your responsibility. Not anyone else. And vice-versa.
Your #1 priority should always be YOU, everyone else comes second.
4. Don't attach yourself to your high school & college achievements.
You are an adult now. This is a new life. Don't become that guy at the family party who always goes, "I was the best in my class..."
Nobody cares bro. Move on.
You are an adult now. This is a new life. Don't become that guy at the family party who always goes, "I was the best in my class..."
Nobody cares bro. Move on.
Get competent at life now.
Your college achievements led you nowhere.
Your college achievements led you nowhere.
Nature favors women, time favors men.
When women hit 20, they are at their peak. Nature gave them power without them having to work for it.
Most of them will reject you today. But at 20, you are just getting started.
When women hit 20, they are at their peak. Nature gave them power without them having to work for it.
Most of them will reject you today. But at 20, you are just getting started.
Be patient, and work on yourself. Your best time is yet to come.
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