Brett Boettcher
Brett Boettcher

@brettboettcher1

43 Tweets 12 reads Aug 05, 2022
40 sentences that will make you a better husband in less than 4 minutes
1) Tell your spouse what she does well 10x as often as what she does wrong.
2) You can always work more overtime. You can’t get those memories back that you missed with your family.
3) If you don’t like the way she is acting, you should consider how you are leading.
4) Listening to her will solve more of her problems than trying to dissect them for her.
5) Date your spouse either formally or informally. You need alone time with no distractions.
6) She wants to be more feminine but she can’t if you are playing that role.
7) Being passive aggressive is not a good look for you dude.
8) Housework isn’t split into his and hers. You are a team; start acting like it.
9) Lifting weights will provide the outlet of stress that your wife shouldn’t need to be.
10) You wonder why you don’t have more sex and she wonders why all you talk about is your job.
11) Your wife shouldn’t have to stress about money, that’s your job. She should still be money-wise, though.
12) Complimenting your spouse isn’t a “beta” move. Getting divorced is.
13) If your wife isn’t meeting your expectations it’s likely because you aren’t meeting hers.
14) Just because other marriages suck, doesn’t mean yours has to.
15) Keeping your kids under one roof is statistically the most important thing you can do for their future success.
16) You want your marriage to improve but you aren’t willing to work on yourself.
17) Take your wife out for dinner without asking her where she wants to eat. Just tell her when to be ready (but give her 30 extra minutes)
18) If your relationship isn’t getting better with time, start by looking in the mirror.
19) Surrounding yourself with other happy couples provides a solid foundation for your relationship.
20) Your relationship won’t get better until you start acting it into reality.
21) Love is a verb, not a lazy mumble with a peck on the cheek before rushing off to work.
22) You want to get laid more but your wife sees your search history.
23) Coming from a college athlete, you don’t have to watch random sporting events every single night.
24) Have at least one hobby that includes your spouse. Bonus points if it includes being active.
25) Your kids aren’t an excuse to neglect your wife. They’re the best reason to keep chasing her.
26) Clean the house occasionally without being asked, even though you suck at cleaning.
27) No relationship ever got worse from you getting in better shape.
28) Your wife isn’t your mother, you can pick up after yourself.
29) No wife ever said, “I wish my husband would drink more”
30) “Why would anyone get married?” is a cope for “nobody would ever put up with me forever.”
31) Neither your wife nor your friends care about your fantasy team… especially if they aren’t in your league.
32) Grown men shouldn’t talk about superheroes.. they should be working on becoming one.
33) Your wife would respect you more if you showed you consistently respected yourself
34) You want to be her number one but you put booze, sports and Netflix before her
35) She’d take you more seriously if you spent less time complaining and more time fixing the problem.
36) No one ever had less sex after looking better naked.
37) You should be physically capable of carrying your wife to safety in an emergency.
38) If you make her cry it better be because you are laughing together.
39) Nothing makes you a bigger loser than being physical with a woman
40) If alcohol changes your relationship with your wife, then you should change your relationship with alcohol.
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