The very core of a relationship is to probe, evaluate and make a sound judgment.
In a nutshell, experience.
Relationship is politics- only your interest matters.
Interest, in this context, is to measure if she ticks every box for marriage or not.
Unfortunately, many
In a nutshell, experience.
Relationship is politics- only your interest matters.
Interest, in this context, is to measure if she ticks every box for marriage or not.
Unfortunately, many
go into relationship for the sex and whatever it presents, thus they go into marriage with same mindset.
Marriage, like relationship, isn't for the faint neither is it for folks who think that the sole purpose of commitment(marriage) is to be happy.
Happiness is one of the
Marriage, like relationship, isn't for the faint neither is it for folks who think that the sole purpose of commitment(marriage) is to be happy.
Happiness is one of the
perks it offers.
We live in a time where many just want to get married for the sake of it or some other reasons that negates the sole purpose of marriage- create, build and maintain an healthy home/family.
No surprises that the rate of divorce is on the increase because many
We live in a time where many just want to get married for the sake of it or some other reasons that negates the sole purpose of marriage- create, build and maintain an healthy home/family.
No surprises that the rate of divorce is on the increase because many
people do not realize that the prerequisites of building an healthy home/family includes self-denial, trust, respect etc.
So, because they are selfish and do not possess the aforementioned qualities in them, they see divorce as the first and pleasing option in the face of
So, because they are selfish and do not possess the aforementioned qualities in them, they see divorce as the first and pleasing option in the face of
momentary crisis.
They have no ounce of staunchness, respect or character in them because, If they did, they'd understand that saying "I do", isn't just for the good times.
It is a vow that one must honour with grace even if they must go through the red sea with their
They have no ounce of staunchness, respect or character in them because, If they did, they'd understand that saying "I do", isn't just for the good times.
It is a vow that one must honour with grace even if they must go through the red sea with their
partner.
Some women are unmarriageable, cunning, pathologically unconscionable and shouldn't make it down the altar because as simple as "I do" sounds, they do not understand what it truly represents.
They have a rough understanding of the whole, but lack clarity and harmony
Some women are unmarriageable, cunning, pathologically unconscionable and shouldn't make it down the altar because as simple as "I do" sounds, they do not understand what it truly represents.
They have a rough understanding of the whole, but lack clarity and harmony
in the minutest details of the life-long oath they vowed to uphold.
Of course, these things are avoidable, however, we've drowned ourselves so deep in the "love is blind" bs.
But,
How come love sees when
Of course, these things are avoidable, however, we've drowned ourselves so deep in the "love is blind" bs.
But,
How come love sees when
a man can no longer provide for his family?
The excuses/grounds for divorce are chiefly silly and selfish because why choose to seek for pyrrhic victory when you could have avoided the war?
People often prefer to pinch the foot instead of cutting off the shoe.
The excuses/grounds for divorce are chiefly silly and selfish because why choose to seek for pyrrhic victory when you could have avoided the war?
People often prefer to pinch the foot instead of cutting off the shoe.
Bro, hold conversations with your "girlfriend or would-be-wife".
Conversations aren't just mere words. They are a database of a person's belief system.
If she redefines divorce as freedom as against failure or sees it as the first and acceptable option, FLEE!!!!
Conversations aren't just mere words. They are a database of a person's belief system.
If she redefines divorce as freedom as against failure or sees it as the first and acceptable option, FLEE!!!!
See your girlfriend or would-be-wife for what she is and not what you think she is.
Unbridled emotions voids wisdom and love provides the veil.
At some point life will happen to you. Does she have the staying power, will she give you peace and act as an helpmate while
Unbridled emotions voids wisdom and love provides the veil.
At some point life will happen to you. Does she have the staying power, will she give you peace and act as an helpmate while
you try to fix things?
Divorce spells failure.
A failure to painstakingly vet before marriage or the absence of effort to make things work.
Marriage is a full-time job and not all(women) who applies for that role are truly qualified.
Divorce spells failure.
A failure to painstakingly vet before marriage or the absence of effort to make things work.
Marriage is a full-time job and not all(women) who applies for that role are truly qualified.
Children shouldn't be subjects or collateral damages for your foolishness, ineptitude or misconceptions.
Men, stick to the values of what a relationship is /should be-probe, evaluate and make a sound judgment(leading to marriage or not) and build an health marriage/home.
Men, stick to the values of what a relationship is /should be-probe, evaluate and make a sound judgment(leading to marriage or not) and build an health marriage/home.
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