Winners and losers FEEL the same—
Winners just BEHAVE differently.
Winners just BEHAVE differently.
I can't tell you how often I hear people saying...
"But Leila, I feel SO anxious when I have to":
- Hire someone
- Fire someone
- Launch a new product
- Make content
- Take a sales call
- The list goes on..
"I just can't do it."
"But Leila, I feel SO anxious when I have to":
- Hire someone
- Fire someone
- Launch a new product
- Make content
- Take a sales call
- The list goes on..
"I just can't do it."
Anxiety, stress, angst...
These are not problems.
They're just features we are born with as a part of the human race.
These are not problems.
They're just features we are born with as a part of the human race.
People who reach their goals and win simply act DESPITE their emotions.
They recognize that fear, stress, and anxiety are all NORMAL and part of the process.
They have trained themselves repeatedly to lean INTO fear rather than AWAY from it.
They recognize that fear, stress, and anxiety are all NORMAL and part of the process.
They have trained themselves repeatedly to lean INTO fear rather than AWAY from it.
Ironically, winning feels worse than losing in the short term:
Because winning requires you to do what feels HARD.
Losing feels good in the short term:
Because it requires nothing of you.
Because winning requires you to do what feels HARD.
Losing feels good in the short term:
Because it requires nothing of you.
This is a question that's helped me a ton:
"Which option is setting my future self up for success?"
Be kind to your future self, and trust your present self will be taken care of.
I hope this helps someone else :)
"Which option is setting my future self up for success?"
Be kind to your future self, and trust your present self will be taken care of.
I hope this helps someone else :)
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