Cyril๐Ÿ•Š
Cyril๐Ÿ•Š

@Debest_of_Kings

12 Tweets 14 reads Aug 19, 2022
NEED FOR MASCULINE FRAME.
In a previous tweet of mine;
- NEED FOR MASCULINE MEN, I talked about the need for masculinity & how dysfunctional our society will be without Masculine men.
I noticed something & I've been seeing it. A whole lot of guys don't have Masculine frame.
Most modern men lack Masculine frame and it's sad. There has also been a reduction in strong role models for young men to emulate.
This is to say that a boy that does not have Masculine men around him but weak men, will emulate the weak traits he sees around him and vice versa.
Masculine frame has much to do with the ability to control your emotions & know when to act as a man.
A man with a masculine frame is cool, calm and collected. He knows when to talk and when not to. He is in full control of his emotions which means he is in charge of his life.
He exudes confidence. I must say It's not easy to manage your emotions & keep it in check always.
A man with a masculine frame knows how to manage his emotions and use them achieve his goals, knows when to exaggerate his anger to show seriousness & when not to act at all.
"The definition of power is not financial success, status or influence over others but the degree to which we have control over our own lives". ~Rollo Tommasi. --The Rational Male.
Every man has his own set of values and your principles depend on your set of values.
This means depending on your principles, there are things you accept and things you don't. You learn to say NO as a man and you're less agreeable to things.
HOW TO BE MASCULINE FRAMED.
To be Masculine framed, you're dependent on yourself alone for validation I.e you validate
yourself in return for respect. You must practice not to need the validation of others but just that of yours.
For a man to be Masculine framed, he must see uncontrollable emotions and expressions as enemies to his masculinity. A man who is framed is not emotionally vulnerable.
"That which does not kill me makes me stronger". ~ Friedrich Nietzsche.
A key to having a strong Masculine frame is to never be swayed by what people do or say.
This means that you don't easily react emotionally to what people do or say.
It is very important to identify your emotional triggers. Identifying your emotional triggers helps you in working on your emotions, good and bad emotions inclusive.
Know when to suppress or exaggerate your emotions. Things You can't control, whether it makes you happy or angry
can be used against you.
Finally, always have a mission or goal. This keeps you focused and also serves as an inspiration or motivation for others. This also attracts others to yourself.
Note that having a dominant frame does not mean you're trying to dominate others.
It means that your frame is fixed and immovable.
"The pain that you hold is yours. There is not a single pain quite like it. Nobody else on God's green earth can feel this pain or have the indescribable feeling of pride when you overcome it. The pain is not
your curse. The pain is your privilege". ~ Arnold Swcharzenegger.
Work on your frame.

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