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MEN SHOULD NOT CONDONE EXTENSIVE & UNNECESSARY "HARD TO GET" GAMES FROM WOMEN
A LONG THREAD! -
I've said this several times, a woman that wants you would not mix red and green flags for you in your pursuits of her.
There are visible key indications to look out for, to know if she's into you, not into you, or in-between (indecisive) about you.
Check my tweet on some of the indicators to know if she's interested or not ,hereπŸ‘‡πŸ»!
I will focus on those men who are left IN-BETWEEN.
First, I always want men to know that women have almost unlimited options in the dating pool when they're still in their primes.
Second, It is in women's nature to always reach for the fittest & best men in any environment they find themselves in. Women are naturally wired to continually desire the best of the best men. This is why celebrities, influencers, politicians, and physically endowed men always
have ladies flocking around them.
Most women never really settle until they acquire their kind of "best man" for themselves.
Once any of these perceived high-value men "best men" get interested in them and he approaches. Women hardly give them tough time (with unnecessary and extensive hard-to-get games.)
Women are aware that these men have many options for ladies around them so they apply common sense to place value on themselves without the intention of losing the man in the process..
A man who is "in-between" is who a woman keeps pending with extensive & unnecessary hard-to-get games because she's still in search of that "best man" but doesn't want to lose him at the same time in case she fails at getting the "best man"
It is not as if this "backup plan" man is not good or desirable though but he probably doesn't fit into the perfect description of how a "best man" should look for her.
She would nonetheless keep him by mixing red and green flags (like a painter).
As a man, if you hold yourself to high esteem ,you need to be definite and assertive. You're not supposed to be a backup plan for any lady. This is why you need to give that woman a time frame to give you a response. You do not allow a woman to extensively put you in a purgatory
and indecision state for too long.
The side effect of an extensive hard-to-get game is that she would keep reaching out for these men she desires.
In those times, her values such as the advantage of time (age), body count, and exclusivity, would keep diminishing.
Although all these diminishing values would remain hidden from him because he would be too focused on getting and pleasing her.
Fortunately for him ,if she eventually gets the "best man". She would reject his waiting ass ASAP and tell him she never said YES.
Unfortunately for him, if she doesn't get the "best man", She comes back to him and shows him a clear green flag this time. By this time, he'd be like "let me try again" and then she finally agrees.
He'd be wahoo-ed thinking that he finally got her after 2 years of chasing.
No, He didn't. She settled for him after weeks,months,years of exploring for better option: the "best man"
The d!cks of these best men she desperately wants would have run through her several times but none of them wanted to keep her, so she came back for the backup plan; YOU.
Most of the miseries these men encounter in relationships and marriages always arise when these women who settled for them finally meet a "best man" during the relationship.
...because it is her nature to find the "best men" irresistible, She would probably cheat on his sorry ass and he'd have no choice but to accept the apology for cheating to keep her because he "chased" her for too long and she's now the PRIZE instead of him. He's more scared of
losing her..
In marriage, there's high tendency that he's going to nurse children that are not his own due to paternity fraud. This woman would still go out and cheat with this "best man" that she didn't get the chance to meet before settling for him.
She might get pregnant for the "best man" and bring home the pregnancy for the "backup plan man" to nurse as his.
He would probably die of stroke or high BP when he discovers.
Summary:
β€’A woman who settled for you would always find the "best men" she ought to have ended up with irresistible and amusing than you, either in a relationship or marriage. This puts her commitment to
rigorous test against her nature..
β€’The probability that you're not her "best man" is proportional to the length of the unnecessary and extensive hard-to-get game.
β€’The shorter the hard-to-get game, the higher the chance that you're her "best man".
There are always exceptions but watch out for that woman who is giving you hard times now. She might come hitting you up in the nearest future.
Use your head or Perish!
If you have objections to this tweet because your brother chased his wife for 13years before finally getting her and they're leaving a happy life now. Please read my pinned tweet!. Don't stress me with exceptions no matter how common they are from your surveys.!.
Peace!.

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