5 persuasive sales techniques (you can steal) to pick up women—and 3x your dating.
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DISCLAIMER
These sentences aren’t tools of manipulation.
These sentences help you build more meaningful connections with the women you desire.
So, use them with love and care.
These sentences aren’t tools of manipulation.
These sentences help you build more meaningful connections with the women you desire.
So, use them with love and care.
1/ 'I’m not sure if I’m your type, but …'
The cutie you’re talking to can’t help but subconsciously conclude: there’s no pressure here!
By freeing her of any pressure: she’ll be more relaxed, and comfortable.
And, link those positive feelings towards you.
The cutie you’re talking to can’t help but subconsciously conclude: there’s no pressure here!
By freeing her of any pressure: she’ll be more relaxed, and comfortable.
And, link those positive feelings towards you.
Or better, she starts to think of reasons why you are her type.
Also, this sentence helps you to...
• Increase intrigue: ‘why isn’t he trying?’
• Be different than try-hard Joe Average.
• Say something valuable or funny after ‘but,…’
Also, this sentence helps you to...
• Increase intrigue: ‘why isn’t he trying?’
• Be different than try-hard Joe Average.
• Say something valuable or funny after ‘but,…’
Examples of the last…
‘I’m not sure if I’m your type, BUT I’m not a bad catch.’
By first disqualifying yourself with ‘i’m not sure if…’
She can't help but believe what you have to say after ‘but…’
‘I’m not sure if I’m your type, BUT I’m not a bad catch.’
By first disqualifying yourself with ‘i’m not sure if…’
She can't help but believe what you have to say after ‘but…’
Therefore, you can say something valuable about yourself without bragging.
Also, you can decide to leave away the ‘but’, and just say ‘I’m not sure if I’m your type.’
Also, you can decide to leave away the ‘but’, and just say ‘I’m not sure if I’m your type.’
2/ 'How adventurous are you?'
Nobody wants to be a bore, especially young and lively women.
They have no option but to say: ‘I’m kinda adventurous!’
Also, she becomes curious about what you have to say.
Nobody wants to be a bore, especially young and lively women.
They have no option but to say: ‘I’m kinda adventurous!’
Also, she becomes curious about what you have to say.
When she answers:‘I’m adventurous!'
You can follow up with a scenario you want her to step into.
You can follow up with a scenario you want her to step into.
Example:
♂️‘How adventurous are you?’
♀️ ’More than enough!’
♂️ ‘Okay, let’s get out of here, I’m taking you to someplace exciting.’
♂️‘How adventurous are you?’
♀️ ’More than enough!’
♂️ ‘Okay, let’s get out of here, I’m taking you to someplace exciting.’
3/ 'I bet you are a bit like me!'
When you’re talking to a cute female, it’s important to establish similarities between the two of you.
Why?
Because it’s the foundation of every relationship.
When you’re talking to a cute female, it’s important to establish similarities between the two of you.
Why?
Because it’s the foundation of every relationship.
Let me introduce you to similarity theory.
Similarity theory argues that we tend to be more attracted to people who have similar traits: such as personality and looks.
This sentence works by highlighting similarities between you and her.
Similarity theory argues that we tend to be more attracted to people who have similar traits: such as personality and looks.
This sentence works by highlighting similarities between you and her.
The best way to tackle this is by carefully listening to what specific things she says.
Then, make a general statement that relates to the things she already mentioned.
Then, make a general statement that relates to the things she already mentioned.
Example:
In a conversation between the two of you. She talks about her passions and being happy with her life.
In a conversation between the two of you. She talks about her passions and being happy with her life.
Later in the conversation, you rephrase it as:
♂️ ‘I bet you’re a bit like me, you’re grateful for where you are today, but you would love to make your dreams a reality!’
♀️ ‘OMG, yes!’
♂️ ‘I bet you’re a bit like me, you’re grateful for where you are today, but you would love to make your dreams a reality!’
♀️ ‘OMG, yes!’
The only thing you have to do is change…
• ’passions’ → ‘dreams’.
• ’happy’ → ‘grateful’.
If it’s too obvious, leave out ‘I bet’, just say: ‘you’re a bit like me…’
• ’passions’ → ‘dreams’.
• ’happy’ → ‘grateful’.
If it’s too obvious, leave out ‘I bet’, just say: ‘you’re a bit like me…’
Thus, you don’t want to come across as trying too hard to be similar.
This will come across as needy.
The idea is to highlight it once, she’ll pick up on other similarities.
This will come across as needy.
The idea is to highlight it once, she’ll pick up on other similarities.
4/ 'What makes you say that?'
No matter how much you and she are into each other, there are going to be disagreements.
This question helps you diminish any type of unnecessary confrontation.
To respectfully counter a statement you disagree with, ask: ‘what makes you say that?’
No matter how much you and she are into each other, there are going to be disagreements.
This question helps you diminish any type of unnecessary confrontation.
To respectfully counter a statement you disagree with, ask: ‘what makes you say that?’
Example:
♀️ ‘I think all men are trash.’
♂️ ‘What makes you say that?’
♀ ‘Well, my ex-boyfriend cheated on me.’
♂️ ‘I’m sorry to hear that. I understand what makes you think that.
♀ ‘Thanks, I don’t think all of them are though. Except for Brad, he’s trash!’
♀️ ‘I think all men are trash.’
♂️ ‘What makes you say that?’
♀ ‘Well, my ex-boyfriend cheated on me.’
♂️ ‘I’m sorry to hear that. I understand what makes you think that.
♀ ‘Thanks, I don’t think all of them are though. Except for Brad, he’s trash!’
Instead of defending all men, yourself, and risking an argument...
simply figure out where she’s coming from and be empathetic.
(You don’t have to agree with everything, just disagree wisely).
simply figure out where she’s coming from and be empathetic.
(You don’t have to agree with everything, just disagree wisely).
5/ How would you feel if?
This simple sentence helps the other person to time travel to a future moment.
And, imagine the emotions that she would experience at that point.
How is this useful?
This simple sentence helps the other person to time travel to a future moment.
And, imagine the emotions that she would experience at that point.
How is this useful?
The goal here is for her to imagine a future she would like to have—and experience happy emotions while talking to you.
As a result, she’ll link those happy feelings to you.
Remember:
It’s not about what you say or do, it’s about how you make her feel.
As a result, she’ll link those happy feelings to you.
Remember:
It’s not about what you say or do, it’s about how you make her feel.
Example:
♀️ ‘I always wanted to be a painter, but I don’t have time.’
♂️ ‘What if you had all the time in the world, how would you feel to live that dream?’
♀️ ‘I would feel amazing! I could paint all the things I want and become an amazing painter!’
♀️ ‘I always wanted to be a painter, but I don’t have time.’
♂️ ‘What if you had all the time in the world, how would you feel to live that dream?’
♀️ ‘I would feel amazing! I could paint all the things I want and become an amazing painter!’
♂️ ‘What if you made it your main task to find 30 minutes a day, where could you be 5 years from now?’
♀️ ‘OMG!’
You just made her feel good and helped her realize everything is possible with consistency!
♀️ ‘OMG!’
You just made her feel good and helped her realize everything is possible with consistency!
SUMMARY
1/ I’m not sure if I’m your type, but …
2/ How adventurous are you?
3/ I bet you are a bit like me!
4/ What makes you say that?
5/ How would you feel if?
1/ I’m not sure if I’m your type, but …
2/ How adventurous are you?
3/ I bet you are a bit like me!
4/ What makes you say that?
5/ How would you feel if?
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This thread is inspired by ‘Exactly what to say'.
A book by Philip M. Jones—self-proclaimed Master of Influence and Persuasion (he's not wrong).
A book by Philip M. Jones—self-proclaimed Master of Influence and Persuasion (he's not wrong).
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