Hate to break it to you guys
But dating apps are NOT what they were even 2 years ago
The algo is rigged against you. And most of the pretty girls have left the platforms
If this is your main strategy, you are going to get bad results. Consider these approaches instead -> ๐งต
But dating apps are NOT what they were even 2 years ago
The algo is rigged against you. And most of the pretty girls have left the platforms
If this is your main strategy, you are going to get bad results. Consider these approaches instead -> ๐งต
When it comes to dating, so much of where to focus depends on your personality
If you're a charismatic partier, you will do better with a different approach than a more low-key artist
The key variables are 1) playing to your inclinations/strengths, 2) getting proximity to women
If you're a charismatic partier, you will do better with a different approach than a more low-key artist
The key variables are 1) playing to your inclinations/strengths, 2) getting proximity to women
Area #1: Social Circle Game
Pro: Effortless leads, social proof does heavy lifting, romances develop naturally. Improves overall quality of life
Con: Reputational hazards, can take months even years to develop network enough for big dividends
Ideal for outgoing guys, partiers
Pro: Effortless leads, social proof does heavy lifting, romances develop naturally. Improves overall quality of life
Con: Reputational hazards, can take months even years to develop network enough for big dividends
Ideal for outgoing guys, partiers
FYI You will want to avoid hooking up with most girls you initially meet and befriend them instead (so you can get access to their friends)
I go into friendzoning girls in depth here
I go into friendzoning girls in depth here
Area #2: Night Game
Pro: Women more open & in the mood, much higher likelihood of sex, more options
Con: Depth of connection is often lacking or transient; superficial leads. Need to deal w her friends
Ideal for guys who love high energy environments, want casual encounters
Pro: Women more open & in the mood, much higher likelihood of sex, more options
Con: Depth of connection is often lacking or transient; superficial leads. Need to deal w her friends
Ideal for guys who love high energy environments, want casual encounters
Area #3: Day Game
Pro: Access to beautiful, often fascinating girls who are usually gatekept by networks or impossible to find
Con: Extremely high learning curve, low ROI until mastery
Ideal for less rowdy, artistic "sigmas" who want to chart their own path, seek self-mastery
Pro: Access to beautiful, often fascinating girls who are usually gatekept by networks or impossible to find
Con: Extremely high learning curve, low ROI until mastery
Ideal for less rowdy, artistic "sigmas" who want to chart their own path, seek self-mastery
Area #4: Social Media Game
Pro: Access to endless number of beautiful women with shared values, more control over process
Con: Requires intentional development of an online presence and "brand management" for best results
Ideal for niche-values or lifestyle-focused men
Pro: Access to endless number of beautiful women with shared values, more control over process
Con: Requires intentional development of an online presence and "brand management" for best results
Ideal for niche-values or lifestyle-focused men
*This* is the new "online dating." You need to get on social media and develop a presence
Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be a big account either
You just need to be involved in an online community, and have some content for a girl to grab onto
Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be a big account either
You just need to be involved in an online community, and have some content for a girl to grab onto
I generally recommend guys lean into 2 of these areas & forego one altogether
You only have so much time; one of these areas is not going to resonate
Some guys hate bars, others have no interest in a big social group
No point forcing something they have no affinity for
You only have so much time; one of these areas is not going to resonate
Some guys hate bars, others have no interest in a big social group
No point forcing something they have no affinity for
There are many roads to dating success. But what you notice is all of them require WORK
There is no cutting corners if you want quality
If you outsource your dating life to an algo that by design does not want you to succeed (you'd get off their app)... you deserve mediocrity
There is no cutting corners if you want quality
If you outsource your dating life to an algo that by design does not want you to succeed (you'd get off their app)... you deserve mediocrity
Reason to work on multiple areas: they compound on each other
The skills you learn in night game will help you be more sexual with women generally. The nerve from cold approach will make you more grounded in social circle. And social media helps keep your social circle engaged
The skills you learn in night game will help you be more sexual with women generally. The nerve from cold approach will make you more grounded in social circle. And social media helps keep your social circle engaged
Mastering these areas takes time
But the good news is my masterclass covers them in depth
Module 4 is focused specifically macro strategy in each of these areas of dating. With Modules 2 & 3 giving you all the tools you need to read women & attract them
masterclass.patstedman.com
But the good news is my masterclass covers them in depth
Module 4 is focused specifically macro strategy in each of these areas of dating. With Modules 2 & 3 giving you all the tools you need to read women & attract them
masterclass.patstedman.com
I'm also available on a limited 1-1 capacity to help guys implement these strategies on a personal level
If you're struggling to get the results you want with women and are committed to doing the work
I strongly recommend you apply for coaching: patstedman.com
If you're struggling to get the results you want with women and are committed to doing the work
I strongly recommend you apply for coaching: patstedman.com
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