Not many Men can handle submissive women. Incapable of leadership and usually maltreat such women. They're better off with a woman with a touch of masculinity. If you're especially indecisive and abusive, a submissive woman will be a curse to you.

Submission comes natural with women. But they usually test the man's strength and intelligence. Checking, if he's capable of leading her and worthy of her submission. Not talking about arrogant women. They should be avoided.

Now, there are some women who previously submitted to the wrong Man, and regretted it. They were led astray and destroyed. In their next relationship they tends to be insecure and usually fight back. Following their experience.

As a Man, a woman who submits to you believes you'll lead her right and protect her. She's not stupid giving up herself for you. You are expected to be protective, wise and smart enough to handle situations. When you mess it up, you release a damaged woman to the pool.