There's a particular dissonance I've noticed.
"Wetin my papa bin dey do when im mates dey make money?"
Clashes with:
"Like sey your papa no get money, you for no get mouth for here."
You wish you're a rich kid, but you "shame" rich kids.
It's a dissonance.
"Wetin my papa bin dey do when im mates dey make money?"
Clashes with:
"Like sey your papa no get money, you for no get mouth for here."
You wish you're a rich kid, but you "shame" rich kids.
It's a dissonance.
Your father's matesโaccording to youโwere hustling while he was pursuing your mother up and down the street.
Now those his mates' kids have come out to spend their fathers' money, and you're telling them they'd be nothing without their wealthy background.
Now those his mates' kids have come out to spend their fathers' money, and you're telling them they'd be nothing without their wealthy background.
This is a background you dearly wish you had.
It's not abnormal actually.
It's probably a defense mechanism to belittle the treasures which are beyond your reach.
But you shouldn't do that.
It's not abnormal actually.
It's probably a defense mechanism to belittle the treasures which are beyond your reach.
But you shouldn't do that.
With that mentality, your kids will also wonder what you were doing when your mates were making money.
And here you are, making excuses and "rich-shaming" people.
Do better. Change the narrative.
And here you are, making excuses and "rich-shaming" people.
Do better. Change the narrative.
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