Beauty of a woman and tears in her eyes holds the power to melt a man's heart and undo all the lessons taught by his experiences. This is both a curse and a blessing. Curse as it makes a man prone to same mistakes, blessing as it warms up a cold heart.

Balancing out indulgence in the blessing, by retaining enough composure to realize the curse is a true test of his ability. A man can easily err by conflating the virtue of women in his life with virtue of womanhood in general. Man is too forgiving unlike his counterpart.