WHY DO GIRLS PLAY HARD TO GET
(And how to beat it)
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(And how to beat it)
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You met a girl, you hit it off, and you're certain that she likes you.
All the signals are there.
She smiles when you talk to her. She laughs at your jokes.
She waits for you.
She plays with her hair. She stares deep into your eyes while you talk.
All the signals are there.
She smiles when you talk to her. She laughs at your jokes.
She waits for you.
She plays with her hair. She stares deep into your eyes while you talk.
You've seen her with other guys. She isn't this way with them. There's something there between you. You're definite about it.
However, she keeps being flirtatious with you but keeps evading your attempts to get together with her.
Why’s she behaving that way?
However, she keeps being flirtatious with you but keeps evading your attempts to get together with her.
Why’s she behaving that way?
“Hook Him In” Game
As women turn men down, and those men continue to pursue, the men become more and more enamored with them.
As women turn men down, and those men continue to pursue, the men become more and more enamored with them.
Younger women often do it for too long, with guys they genuinely like,
And end up losing guys they didn't want to lose.
Even women in their twenties and up make this mistake.
And end up losing guys they didn't want to lose.
Even women in their twenties and up make this mistake.
It's part of the reason the ball-in-her-court message works as well as it does:
If she's playing hard to get with you, and you cut her off but give her an easy way to reinitiate things with you when she realizes she might've gone too far with it,
She may well do so.
If she's playing hard to get with you, and you cut her off but give her an easy way to reinitiate things with you when she realizes she might've gone too far with it,
She may well do so.
Women, as risk-averse creatures,
Generally seek to maximize their relational power before they enter a romantic situation with a man, whenever and wherever possible.
Generally seek to maximize their relational power before they enter a romantic situation with a man, whenever and wherever possible.
Shy Girls
You might be surprised how often this is the case with women.
A lot of men expect every woman is totally secure in her feminine power.
You might be surprised how often this is the case with women.
A lot of men expect every woman is totally secure in her feminine power.
Girls like this can play hard to get with you not because they're trying to lead you along, but because they're a little intimidated by you
Shy girls are usually younger girls.
Yet you can meet the odd romantically inexperienced, still-shy girl at older ages too.
Shy girls are usually younger girls.
Yet you can meet the odd romantically inexperienced, still-shy girl at older ages too.
How Do You Beat ‘Hard to Get’?
1. Absence followed by invite.
The ball-in-her-court message uses this approach: you invite her to message you when she's ready to go out, then vanish off her radar.
1. Absence followed by invite.
The ball-in-her-court message uses this approach: you invite her to message you when she's ready to go out, then vanish off her radar.
2. Game overwhelms.
Another way to make headway is to overwhelm her with such an excellent game that she agrees to your terms on a high point.
Another way to make headway is to overwhelm her with such an excellent game that she agrees to your terms on a high point.
3. Urgency/scarcity. Why do women suddenly start hooking up with guys they flirted with all semester long during the last few weeks? Because the semester's about to end, they may never see those guys again.
Suddenly it's now or never. You can engineer situations like this
Suddenly it's now or never. You can engineer situations like this
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