What Pickup Gets Wrong (Unpopular Opinion) 🛑
This might trigger some PUA guys... 🤫
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This might trigger some PUA guys... 🤫
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This might trigger some PUA guys... 🤫
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As you know, I'm not a PUA (pickup artist) at all, I don't associate myself with that at all.
I just think it's very important for ANY man to master dating & relationships with the opposite sex.
I just think it's very important for ANY man to master dating & relationships with the opposite sex.
Seduction & Communication are very interesting topics and they became a passion of mine very early on.
However, over the years, I've seen a lot of market inefficiencies, gaps and failure points in the "pickup community"...
And here are 3 of them:
However, over the years, I've seen a lot of market inefficiencies, gaps and failure points in the "pickup community"...
And here are 3 of them:
➡️ #1 Having Female Friends
This is one of the biggest ones, especially in the red pill community.
They tell you NOT to have ANY female friend.
They will even tell you that it's "beta" to have female friends...
This is one of the biggest ones, especially in the red pill community.
They tell you NOT to have ANY female friend.
They will even tell you that it's "beta" to have female friends...
I am very "red-pilled" myself and I'm very aware of the unconventional truth about male/female relationships...
But I think this is absurd.
I've had a ton of female friends throughout my life and they've been very helpful in many ways.
But I think this is absurd.
I've had a ton of female friends throughout my life and they've been very helpful in many ways.
No amount of "game" is going to trump one of your female friends introducing you to another girl you like.
Most pickup guys view women as opponents instead of viewing them as allies and having them on their team.
No amount of "game" is going to trump one of your female friends introducing you to another girl you like.
Most pickup guys view women as opponents instead of viewing them as allies and having them on their team.
Which I think is much smarter and more powerful.
It creates win-win situations that wouldn't have been created otherwise.
When I roll up at a nightclub with some female friends, getting girls is the easiest thing in the world.
It creates win-win situations that wouldn't have been created otherwise.
When I roll up at a nightclub with some female friends, getting girls is the easiest thing in the world.
And I can also back up my claims as to why with years of research on evolutionary psychology & mating strategies.
Careful, there is a BIG difference between BEING FRIEND ZONED and YOU PROACTIVELY FRIENDZONING SOME WOMEN. ⚠️
Careful, there is a BIG difference between BEING FRIEND ZONED and YOU PROACTIVELY FRIENDZONING SOME WOMEN. ⚠️
➡️ #2 Demonstrating Fake High-Value VS Actually Being High-Value
Demonstrating Higher Value is important in the sense that for someone to be highly attracted to you, they need to see that you're living a high-status life.
➡️ #2 Demonstrating Fake High-Value VS Actually Being High-Value
Demonstrating Higher Value is important in the sense that for someone to be highly attracted to you, they need to see that you're living a high-status life.
The pickup community will tell you that if you still live in your mom's basement, it's ok.
They'll tell you that just by learning a few tricks, approaching a girl and saying a few lines, you'll be able to be successful with women.
WRONG. It's not ok.
They'll tell you that just by learning a few tricks, approaching a girl and saying a few lines, you'll be able to be successful with women.
WRONG. It's not ok.
If you still live in your mom's basement and you have a mediocre situation...
Fix your situation first, make money, train your body, and move out on your own.
Stop trying to fake high value through your words, women will see through it.
If you still live in your mom's basement and you have a mediocre situation...
Fix your situation first, make money, train your body, and move out on your own.
Stop trying to fake high value through your words, women will see through it.
Too many men try to DO attractive things instead of BECOMING attractive FIRST.
They use DHV lines as a crutch.
They use DHV lines as a crutch.
I'm not saying you shouldn't learn how to DHV, it's important to learn how to communicate your value effectively but just don't be masquerading behind lines...
Genuinely become a top-tier man in the dating marketplace.
There are many other things I can say on the topic.
Genuinely become a top-tier man in the dating marketplace.
There are many other things I can say on the topic.
➡️. #3: The Importance of IG & Social Circle Building
This is a big one.
And it might trigger some old school PUA guys.
But the dating market has evolved.
Online > Real Life.
This is a big one.
And it might trigger some old school PUA guys.
But the dating market has evolved.
Online > Real Life.
IG is KING now and you need to have a strong Online Presence.
Most pickup guys have been stuck in old ways and they became one-trick ponies.
They just approach girls and do some old-school "day game" at the mall.
Most pickup guys have been stuck in old ways and they became one-trick ponies.
They just approach girls and do some old-school "day game" at the mall.
While this still works, I think it's sad to limit yourself and miss out on the new evolving efficient ways of dating.
It's very important to build a strong online presence and social circle nowadays. More than ever before.
It's very important to build a strong online presence and social circle nowadays. More than ever before.
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