If you are a young woman who is in touch with her instincts,
you most probably have a high baby fever,
It's a weakness which has the power to turn your journey into motherhood from transcendental to destructive because it will make you rush into picking any man who promises you

For a child without him passing your innate screening test because for you the man becomes a "means to an end (baby)" and by acting on it, you will betray your upcoming child and the very first step towards motherhood, you let your instincts get the better of you and you risked

what's good for the child & your soul.
This is why a woman who can look past her baby fever, doesn't let it be the sole driver in her pursuit of motherhood i.e. chooses the man purely out of love for his spirit & character, is much more honorable than a woman who does otherwise.