Nadya Alfa
Nadya Alfa

@Nadyaialfa

6 Tweets 4 reads Nov 30, 2022
Being an orphan at a very tender age can be confusing and frustrating, one minute ur parent/parents are alive, the next they are gone. Then you get shipped to a family member who may or may not understand u or ur pain. If u are lucky they treat u good but u may never feel....
Like you fit in, always feeling like you have a chip on your shoulder. Atimes you are clearly shown you are a charity case, you are not wanted. Those are the Merciful family members. If you are sent to live with the evil ones, that is the beginning of a life filled with trauma
They will strip you of your sense of self, sense of identity, freedom, destroy of self confidence and self esteem. Some psychological emotional abuse run deeper than the physical ones.
You will begin to ask yourself are you really related to this person, how was he/she nice and sweet to you when your parent/parents were alive. When people experience this, they begin to build walls to shield themselves from the outside (people), they become hard and emotionless
For some if abuse becomes too much they dissociate and create safe places in their mind. Others grow up to be distant cold adults we call them heartless. They had to be heartless to survive what they went through.
You see it takes a village to raise a kid and it also takes a.....
Village to abuse it. Other family members and people in the neighbourhood know when a child is been maltreatment they just choose to look the other way because its EASIER

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