Women need to be wise, they make the mistake of betting against their "struggling" boyfriends future and lose!
They leave them for the home boys, meanwhile, these guys only want their body, they lure them with money, use and dump them, at the end you ladies lose 2-0.

Most times, after all these the "struggling boyfriend" will pull his way through life. And the lady will come ranting "after 100 years" of being with you, you leaving!
C'mon girl, not all that glitters is gold.
Women these days lack patience, they lack contentment!

These two driving forces push them to cheat, and after cheating you blame the guy for leaving.
Okays, you've been unfaithful in those 100 years of being with him, how do you expect a masculine man to tolerate that?

Women also need to do better in making decisions, think about what could go wrong, its not only about today, think about the future.