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Dating mistakes men must avoid:
1. Arguing.
Women need to be heard. They don’t argue in the same way guys do.
They only get angrier the more you try to explain.
The solution is to completely listen first.
Then when she tells you she feels better tell her you want to tell her your point of view.
2. Over-explaining.
Women want a strong man who doesn’t need other people’s approval to be himself.
A confident man doesn’t explain himself because he’s certain.
Communicate, yes.
But stop explaining yourself to women and start owning your actions.
3. Chasing.
Women will say they want to be chased but when you chase them they get bored of you.
They ghost you.
Chase a woman for a few weeks then slowly let her start chasing you.
If she’s chasing you, she’s not chasing anybody else.
4. Pleasing.
Feminine energy likes to nurture and make people feel comfortable.
People-pleasing makes a woman think you don’t like yourself enough to just be you.
Care for your woman but not so much that you sacrifice yourself or your needs.
5. Needing.
Needing love is the fastest way to lose it.
Women love a man who doesn’t rely on them to be happy.
He’s complete without her.
Learn to be happy alone then you’ll lose your neediness and expectations.
Become detached and women will become attached.
6. Expecting.
Love is not the arena to have expectations in.
When you have expectations—you start experiencing pain.
Placing expectations on a woman is a form of neediness—turnoff.
Live in the present moment and have fun when you’re hanging with women.
7. Changing.
Women want a strong man.
Strong men don’t change until they see fit.
Weak, needy men will change their standards and plans.
Be yourself and don’t change your ideas just because a woman thinks differently.
8. Over-protecting.
Jealousy is the root of all evil in relationships.
It will make you look the most unattractive and weak to a woman.
Be with a woman you actually trust so you encourage her to express herself.
9. Under-protecting.
Women need to know that you care.
If you never set any boundaries or reciprocate feelings then she’ll think you don’t care.
She’ll walk away.
You’ve got to share some feelings with her and set boundaries so she can feel like you want her.
10. Thinking.
Over-thinking is a form of neediness.
Attractive men are smooth, slow, and calm.
Thinking too much turns women off because it’s simply anti-romantic.
You can over-think but don’t vocalize it.
Being okay with uncertainty will also quell your overthinking.
11. Communicating.
Women need a man who knows how to communicate.
How you communicate with women can turn them off or on.
Directly communicate your needs and wants gracefully.
Then learn when to let there be silence.
12. Following.
Women want a leader. They want a man with a purpose and values they can stand behind.
Know what you want and lead yourself.
Once you know how to lead your own life you’ll be able to lead other people.
Lead and she will follow.
13. Slacking.
We all get lazy at some point.
A woman’s attraction will lower toward you as you get lazy.
Keep yourself focused and organized to stay on top of your duties as a man.
After all, you giving her the things that make you a man is your way of loving her.
14. Deciding.
Woman want a guy whose decisive.
It’s a quality of strength which is attractive.
When your woman asks you to make a decision—make one.
She’ll trust you even if you’re wrong.
It’s the easiest way to be attractive.
15. Talking.
Women want mystery.
Talking too much kills the mystery.
The more you let her talk the more she’ll like you.
And the more mysterious you’ll be.
Ask the questions and let her talk more than you.
When you respond, reply with short, funny answers.
16. Choosing.
Choose a woman who chooses you.
You want to date someone you’re excited about and who’s excited about you.
Women who really like you make it obvious and easy.
Walk away until you meet the woman who makes saying no sound like a bad idea.
17. Pedestalizing.
She’s not better than you.
But if you treat her like it she has no choice but to accept that.
She wants an equal, not a butler.
Genuinely feeling like you’re a catch is the easiest way to act like one.
(hint: taking tons of action breeds confidence)
18. Freaking out.
Women love centeredness. It’s attractive.
If you lose your temper with a woman you’re letting her be the leader.
That makes you look weak.
No matter how horrible she acts never get angry.
19. Testing.
Women test you to feel your strength.
They are attracted to strength.
When you brush her tests off she’ll fall more in love with you.
You pass her tests by maintaining your confident and care-free attitude.
Remember, love is supposed to be a good time—not life or death.
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