honestly marriage is scary. women who marry off in innocence, filled with much love to give, in purity and simple mindedness are abused and physically beaten daily. there can never be a strong enough reason for a man to emotionally or physically abuse a woman.

how does a man so easily raise his hand on a woman despite her constant screams and tears?
Each physical scar leaves emotional and mental torment on her. no matter how ill charactered a woman can be, it does not justify abuse.

May Allaah Ta'ala protect us, its honestly so important to make continuous duaa for a spouse who has Taqwa & is soft hearted. make duaa everyday because in the end that's where your future is and you really don't know where your future will be and in whose home you will reside in

so many marriages start off well, and even after sharing the deepest and strongest love, abuse begins.. even whilst there are kids in the home. this leaves one's innocent children with emotional trauma.

continously make duaa for a home filled with genuine love, simplicity, tranquility and comfort, safety, warmth.. a home that is filled with softness, gentleness.. no matter how challenging your day is, you know you can finally return home and not need to escape from it's torment.