Biggest thing I've learned as a man that's been married for a very long time, is that many people, women mostly, get married for security. For the contract bit of the thing. Which when you think about it, is messed up. They love the financial commitment you now have to them.

The commitment of fatherhood and raising children. That's mostly where it dwells. It often ends up being very little about love and feelings for each other. That's why many women openly say they don't mind if the man cheats as long as she's still the wife and he keeps

those contractual obligations coming. It's messed up. Many people are in marriages of convenience. And that's where the trouble comes. Because with your generation, and the social and financial atmosphere where everything has just become heavy and burdensome, people are

realising that marriages are hard. Not as romanticized as they used to be. The balance that u've got to maintain to live & be committed to that partner, for the rest of your life, it's a lot for your generation. Because it surely isn't going to be easy. Too many pressure points.