FIVE lies about masculinity.
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When a man is first learning masculinity, he will notice conflicting guidance from other men and women. This can be a real confusing experience that can corrupt a man's masculine frame. This thread will go into FIVE lies about masculinity that are common.
1. "Bottling up emotions is unhealthy" This is a big one that is feminine frame. Women are made emotional by their hormone flux and require expressing the emotion to regulate themselves. This is why a female will encourage men to open up. They are telling men to be like them.
But also, fake masculine coaches will say the same thing. They think that emotional suppression is harmful or leads to blow ups. This is false. The more we control ourselves, the stronger we get in control. Inner fortitude is like callous around our emotions.
2. "Detachment is unhealthy" This is false. Detachment is mastery. When a man exists above something, he is not ignorant of it but rather is showcasing mastery. Whether hunter, surgeon or leader, we detach to better serve those who are attached in dependence to us.
3. "A man needs to fuck lots of women" This is false. A man can learn more about female nature by being a long relationship than random hook ups. And celebrating notch counts is an immaturity that these men refuse to let go of. It is a fad that will go out of fashion.
4. "A man and woman should be friends" No. A woman does not expect her man to be her friend. She expects him to be her leader. The worst leaders are those that try to be buddies with their followers. Leadership requires distance. Distance fuels respect.
5. "It is okay for men to cry" A lot of guys say this to save face for their own behaviors. Maybe they cry a lot. They do not realize that crying is a signal of fear and anxiety. It is a showcase of feeling dispossession of self. This one offends a lot of men in their feminine.
Masculine frame in truth is hard to hear. It offends the feminine men. It is a cold discipline that allows a female to become warm in nursing affection. Remember, sexual polarity is cool/warm or cold/hot. Living a rational life has its own joy. Leave emotions to females.
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