Today is our nikahversary. Sharing 20 things you might wanna know :
1. Wife needs 2A. Attention & appreciation
2. Husband needs respect & support
3. Both spouses have needs. Either individual needs or gender specific needs. If the needs aren't fulfilled, there'll be problems
1. Wife needs 2A. Attention & appreciation
2. Husband needs respect & support
3. Both spouses have needs. Either individual needs or gender specific needs. If the needs aren't fulfilled, there'll be problems
4. No marriage can get to the level of a great marriage unless both spouses' needs are met adequately
5. Lack of physical intimacy can hurt yr marriage. Don't use yr children as excuses
6. Hug is powerful. Casual touch is necessary. Forehead kiss carries emotional closeness
5. Lack of physical intimacy can hurt yr marriage. Don't use yr children as excuses
6. Hug is powerful. Casual touch is necessary. Forehead kiss carries emotional closeness
7. Communication is the key. Without comm, there'll be suspicion & frustration
8. Mind the words u choose. Ask yrself if it's really needed to be said. Honesty is vital, but discretion is also crucial to avoid conflicts. Some words are better left unsaid, or youll regret it later
8. Mind the words u choose. Ask yrself if it's really needed to be said. Honesty is vital, but discretion is also crucial to avoid conflicts. Some words are better left unsaid, or youll regret it later
9. Don't be a queen control. Your husband is King. Like it or not, he's above you. Listen to your husband as long as it's not against syariah. Be teachable
10. Treat your wife with grace. Shower her with love. Preserve her joy. Keep her happy. Be gentle, but firm
10. Treat your wife with grace. Shower her with love. Preserve her joy. Keep her happy. Be gentle, but firm
11. Never yell at your spouse without concrete reason. Your spouse isn't your opponent. Raise your points, not your voice
12. Be patient with each other & be patient with the marriage itself bcs healthy marriages grow, progress & change over time
12. Be patient with each other & be patient with the marriage itself bcs healthy marriages grow, progress & change over time
13. Neither of you is a mind reader. Ask. Talk to your spouse. Don't assume. Your partner should know what you actually want, what do you like/dislike
14. Practice gratitude. Dont compare yr spouse to someone's else's spouse. Always seek out things to be grateful for in yr spouse
14. Practice gratitude. Dont compare yr spouse to someone's else's spouse. Always seek out things to be grateful for in yr spouse
15. Make yr wife feels secure - physically, emotionally, spiritually. Assure her of yr faithfulness & commitment
16. Your husband needs words of affirmation. Man loves it when his wife appreciates & acknowledges him. It'll motivate him to work harder as the provider of the family
16. Your husband needs words of affirmation. Man loves it when his wife appreciates & acknowledges him. It'll motivate him to work harder as the provider of the family
17. Your marriage should be your place of peace. Actively apologizing & forgiving your spouse are crucial ingredients to keep that peace
18. Be playful with your partner. Make silly jokes. Flirt. Humour. Make each other laugh
18. Be playful with your partner. Make silly jokes. Flirt. Humour. Make each other laugh
19. Dont forget to give personal space to yr partner when needed. Uninterrupted time to themselves allows them to pay closer attention to their emotions & to reflect
20. Last but not least, make lotsa du'a to keep yr marriage more content, stronger & to protect from evil eyes
20. Last but not least, make lotsa du'a to keep yr marriage more content, stronger & to protect from evil eyes
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