Don't do this because you need her validation, or approval.
Do this because perception management is what will get you results (e.g. sex) in the sexual marketplace.
Do this because perception management is what will get you results (e.g. sex) in the sexual marketplace.
This is one of the reasons why:
•dressing wealthy,
•having powerful body-language (verbal & non-verbal),
•having powerful contacts as male friends (social proof on steroids),
•having beautiful women as contacts (preselection),
•decent personal grooming,etc
is paramount.
•dressing wealthy,
•having powerful body-language (verbal & non-verbal),
•having powerful contacts as male friends (social proof on steroids),
•having beautiful women as contacts (preselection),
•decent personal grooming,etc
is paramount.
At some point, the seducer does ask these basic questions of “What do you for work?” etc, but that should not be at the start of interactions because it violates the rule of: generating attraction precedes building rapport.
A woman has to first become attracted to a man before she cares about learning the mundane details of his life, and sharing the mundane details of her life.
First a seducer focuses on generating genuine female intrigue and then he focuses on building rapport with the female (not the other way around).
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