How men operate having different mindsets.
Scarcity mindset: “I love you, I can’t live without you”. So he condones a lot of bs just to keep her.
Abundance mindset: “I love you, but I respect myself enough to dump and replace you if you mess up”. She then acts right.

Scarcity mindset: “I’ll do anything to have you”. She then takes advantage of him.
Abundance mindset: “I ain’t forcing anything, if you wants this, we good, if you don’t, we move”. She obviously can’t take advantage of him here.

Scarcity mindset: “I just lost the most beautiful woman in the world”. So he keeps begging her to come back to his life.
Abundance mindset: “there’s a lot of beautiful women in the world”. So he moves to the next, easily.