Here are the main reasons why you’re not approaching:
1) You’re worried that women will see you as a nuisance ✅
1) You’re worried that women will see you as a nuisance ✅
Deep inside, you think you’re somewhat bothering them by approaching them
Rather than seeing the approach as giving her an awesome opportunity to meet a great guy like you…
You see that negatively and you apprehend the consequences.
Rather than seeing the approach as giving her an awesome opportunity to meet a great guy like you…
You see that negatively and you apprehend the consequences.
2) You subconsciously put them on a pedestal ✅
You feel like because she’s hot, she’s getting hit on by so many guys that you don’t stand a chance with her.
You might feel like she’s better than you or out of your league or that she won’t be interested in guys like you…
You feel like because she’s hot, she’s getting hit on by so many guys that you don’t stand a chance with her.
You might feel like she’s better than you or out of your league or that she won’t be interested in guys like you…
You might be thinking:
"She's hot, she’d only be interested in guys who are [X excuse] aka richer/taller/more handsome, more jacked…"
This mindset will kill your chances of success with women.
You need to have the opposite mindset.
'Why the fuck not? I'm a G"
"She's hot, she’d only be interested in guys who are [X excuse] aka richer/taller/more handsome, more jacked…"
This mindset will kill your chances of success with women.
You need to have the opposite mindset.
'Why the fuck not? I'm a G"
My advice to you on this one is: STOP being a f*cking mind reader, you can never know, go approach and see for yourself.
3) You are afraid of "judgement" ✅
You have low self-esteem and you’re constantly preoccupied with what people think of you as if you were the centre of the universe.
NOBODY f*cking cares.
She's literally going to forget about you 2 minutes later.
You have low self-esteem and you’re constantly preoccupied with what people think of you as if you were the centre of the universe.
NOBODY f*cking cares.
She's literally going to forget about you 2 minutes later.
4) You are afraid of "rejection" ✅
Rejection is meaningless unless you attach meaning to it.
It’s not a rejection, just a lack of fitment at that moment in time.
Rejection is meaningless unless you attach meaning to it.
It’s not a rejection, just a lack of fitment at that moment in time.
5) You don't have a system ✅
You don't what to do and how to do it with women...
And that's not your fault, they don't teach this in school.
Nobody teaches this unless you purposefully immerse yourself into the dating community and take this seriously.
You don't what to do and how to do it with women...
And that's not your fault, they don't teach this in school.
Nobody teaches this unless you purposefully immerse yourself into the dating community and take this seriously.
Very few men have mastered this million-dollar skillset.
By developing yourself in the seduction game, you indirectly improve yourself in the business game and the game of life in general.
The same communication principles are transferrable in business and networking.
By developing yourself in the seduction game, you indirectly improve yourself in the business game and the game of life in general.
The same communication principles are transferrable in business and networking.
Now here’s the reality:
In real life, most women are open to being approached as long as the guy is confident, easy-going and positive.
If you are nervous and shy or talk really fast, women will reject your attempts to speak with them.
In real life, most women are open to being approached as long as the guy is confident, easy-going and positive.
If you are nervous and shy or talk really fast, women will reject your attempts to speak with them.
Here is the truth: A shy and nervous guy is ranked as a lower-ranking male and will usually be treated with disdain by women.
Personal power and self-confidence are the most important thing to attract women. You need to have a delusional sense of confidence.
Personal power and self-confidence are the most important thing to attract women. You need to have a delusional sense of confidence.
I always say that your degree of anxiety around women is a direct reflection of your entitlement to walk into this world and dominate your reality.
You have approach anxiety because you have a lack of strength in your frame and you have limiting beliefs around stepping up for your success.
That being said, as one of the top dating & lifestyle consultants in the world, I have a field-tested proven method for curring approach anxiety. (for those who really need it)
Understand that women seek to find a guy who is stronger than them and who will remain strong in the face of adversity or challenge.
She wants to fully step into her femininity by having a strong man around her instead of having to put on a masculine persona and act like a man.
She wants to fully step into her femininity by having a strong man around her instead of having to put on a masculine persona and act like a man.
Many men unknowingly develop serious anxiety and social fears as a result of thinking of low of themselves:
- Lack of confidence and low self-esteem
- Lack of emotional strength, purpose and mission
- Deep feelings of shame, nervousness and anxiety
- Lack of confidence and low self-esteem
- Lack of emotional strength, purpose and mission
- Deep feelings of shame, nervousness and anxiety
Curing anxiety simply involves changing how you think.
Changing how you think takes action.
Changing how you think takes action.
What if I told you...
You can beat approach anxiety forever, in less than 8 weeks.
I’m talking organized curriculum that literally follows a step-by-step system to killing your approach anxiety and getting you dating 1-3 high-quality women each week.
You can beat approach anxiety forever, in less than 8 weeks.
I’m talking organized curriculum that literally follows a step-by-step system to killing your approach anxiety and getting you dating 1-3 high-quality women each week.
When you know what to do and how to do it, and you have the accountability to do it...
Success is the only possible outcome.
Success is the only possible outcome.
If you're interested in learning more and finally dating the women you want...
(Without wasting your time or compromising your other goals.)
DM me the word "Me" and I'll give you all the details. 👇
(Without wasting your time or compromising your other goals.)
DM me the word "Me" and I'll give you all the details. 👇
Also, check out my full step-by-step system for approaching women in your day-to-day life here...
You'll uncover the ACCQC system and you'll never have to worry again about "the good thing to say" when approaching women.
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You'll uncover the ACCQC system and you'll never have to worry again about "the good thing to say" when approaching women.
Get it here: limooueslati.gumroad.com
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