When a long term relationship ends, especially on a bad note, who should be more pained for the "waste of years"? The woman, who understands. Time is precious to women, and it is their biggest enemy. Time is precious to men, but it is their best ally.
A man can with time, increase his value. Learn from his past dealings with women, how to handle them in the future, make more money, get in shape, more attractive, and mentally stronger. This is what men should make of relationship failures.
With the failure, you can have future success with women. This should be your mindset. Not wallow in self pity, overly dejected and all.
It is not the same opportunity for women. Long term relationship failure is catastrophic for wome, for many obvious reasons.
It is not the same opportunity for women. Long term relationship failure is catastrophic for wome, for many obvious reasons.
Her youthful beauty and innocence all gone and can never be recovered. She's also close to menopause, where men pause to ask her out. Less attractive to the kind of men she wants. This is enough to cause mental illness for them.
Especially women who are emotionally attached, invested and committed to the relationship. It is not a bad thing. It is expected. But what can you learn?
As a woman, You must be really careful with the man you want to date, while young, fertile and beautiful. Will he not waste my time? Does he know what he's doing? Does he intend to marry me, or just passing time?
These are the genuine questions you need to ask yourself, or him, if you're brave. This is obviously not for sluts, the unserious ones, and other foolish, naive women who actually don't care their precious time is wasted.
But grow old and filled with regrets, resentments and blame men for their own inadequacies and shortcomings. Indeed foolish.
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